If you believe the statistics, most people reading these lines have ever tied up a person to have sex with them. Well, or they were associated with the same purpose.
Bondage or any restriction of movement is practically the first thing a couple tries when they want to go a little beyond the usual.
Why is this necessary?
There is much that is attractive about bondage. Firstly, this is an indicator of absolute trust in a partner: in order to be completely immobilized, naked and helpless in front of someone and allow them to do whatever they want with themselves, it is necessary to reach a very, very close and honest relationship. “I am all yours,” “I am completely yours,” “I believe you” are very seductive and exciting messages.
Secondly, sex is always a little about an animal, about dominance and submission. And the opportunity to make love with an immobilized partner, to completely control the process, is the most soft version dominance.
And thirdly, there is something here from the shy “it’s not me, it’s he (she!)” I once collected material about prostate massage, it turned out that most men for the first time allowed their partner to do this to them just in time to play with handcuffs. It seemed like he had nothing to do with it at all, he couldn’t do anything, his hands were tied...
How to tie
If the idea came to you spontaneously, tie it with anything - even a robe belt, even tights. Wide stationery tape is also a good option. You can play a robbery, for example.
But if you decide to carefully prepare for the transition to a new level, go to a sex shop, or even better, to some specialized site on the Internet, and see how many of the most amazing immobilization devices humanity has come up with: from fluffy handcuffs to the most complex frames to fix the body in a certain position. Listen to yourself: perhaps one of these devices will be of particular interest to you. By the way, if you like ordinary ropes, then it is also better to buy them not in a hardware store, but in a sex shop: they are special there - soft and elastic, which will not hurt the skin, will not accidentally strangle you and will not tighten blood vessels.
What then
You should not tie up your partner if you haven’t figured out what to do with him later, or if your plans are just standard coitus - your partner’s immobility will not give you any bonuses. Here's what else you can try:
- Combining fixation with a blindfold will greatly enhance the sensation. A friend told how her husband caressed her vagina with a thin slice of melon - and it was so sensual and unusual that she was remembered as one of the most vivid and acute sexual experiences in her life.
- Try to influence your partner’s body in different ways - with makeup brushes, feathers, pieces of silk or leather, lightly, barely touching, walk over the body with a hard brush - its sharp bristles in contrast with delicate silk can lead to a completely dizzying effect! Moreover: in this way you can greatly increase the sensitivity of the skin. Our receptors are trained in the same way as any other sense organs, and such exercises teach us to respond to touch and increase sensuality.
- Try the shibari technique. This is a traditional Japanese art of tying, and there are many instructions on the Internet for tying simple knots. And next to the shibari there is always a photograph. When your partner is securely (and beautifully!) tied up, you really want to take a photo of him. Glory to the one who invented digital photography and saved us from the presence of third parties when developing photographs.
And the last thing: active position gives the partner not only an advantage, but also responsibility. Erotic etiquette presupposes that someone is tied up not in order to take advantage of him, helpless, at his own discretion, but in order to give the bound maximum pleasure. And may it be very, very long!
Accounts receivable management Brunhild Svetlana Gennadievna
Making a profit is the only thing that binds you. How the client manipulates you. Client spoiled
Making a profit is the only thing that binds you. How the client manipulates you. Client spoiled
If you don't receive desired result or you don’t get what you expected, which means you need to change something in the dialogue scheme. Again, you may have to use different demeanors and reasoning. Practice persuasion on clients whose debt you most likely will not collect. But why not try to kill two birds with one stone? This experience is especially useful if you find it difficult to be persistent, harsh, demanding, or even rude. If your upbringing does not allow you to interrupt your interlocutor mid-sentence in order to return him to the topic that interests you. The company lost the client anyway, and you bought an excellent “pear” for exercise. Practice the argumentation of a persuasive speech, learn to listen and notice the nuances of your opponent’s behavior. In the end, you simply have to do it to achieve mastery and confidence in your abilities. The driver of the car always knows what his “iron horse” is capable of. The driver is confident in strength and speed, knows the limits of his capabilities. That's why he's calm. The newcomer is fussing and afraid. Afraid to drive slowly, afraid to press the gas harder. He does not control his horse, therefore he does not control the situation. Your client subconsciously feels how to talk to you and how not to. If you don’t adapt to him, if you don’t lead the conversation in your own direction, you’ll lose on the very first move:
– Hello, sorry to bother you, this is company “N”. My name is NN, I am a credit inspector. You have not paid for your last two shipments and I would like to know why.
- ABOUT! Do you know how many reasons we have? We have a wagonload of reasons! First, tenth...
As they say, find five mistakes in your greeting. And this, unfortunately, is not a joke.
Firstly, you are not bothering anyone - you are working, just like your interlocutor. Secondly, Don’t throw in suggestive words like “reason.” You are not interested in the reason, you are interested in the date of payment. Thirdly, First you need to introduce yourself and name the company on whose behalf you are speaking, and then ask what the name of your opponent is. Fourthly, the opening statement should end with a question to which you want an answer. Fifthly, You are not ingratiating yourself, but are politely interested.
There are few clients who pay regularly. They are hunting for such clients. They are known to all managers in a certain sales area. They are scrupulous about their reputation and not pleasing them is like death. Such clients break off relations with the supplier once and for all, because they are in great demand. The rest, unfortunately, are not so pedantic in payments. And therefore they look for shortcomings in the supplier, are constantly indignant, object and capricious. Nobody likes to give money; everyone is not averse to using other people's funds. It is never too late to pay as serious action is unlikely to be taken. This is a completely normal situation. It's a game, so take it easy. Put on a serious face, think about chess or checkers, but don’t be frivolous - remember the client’s ambitions. After all, he is a CLIENT, an important figure, a component of yours, including your well-being. It's a matter of status successful career, powers. It is necessary to remind about payments, and it is necessary to demand. Only very politely and persistently. When talking with such clients, be able to overcome their objections, let the person speak out, and sometimes agree with the interlocutor. The main thing is not to argue or contrast your opinion about the company with the client’s opinion; one must affirm, state, divert the conversation, ask for advice. Objections and complaints are typical. I will give typical examples of responses to objections so that it is clear in which direction to move.
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Or any restriction of movement is practically the first thing a couple tries when they want to go a little beyond the usual.
Why is this necessary?
There is much that is attractive about bondage. Firstly, this is an indicator of absolute trust in a partner: in order to be completely immobilized, naked and helpless in front of someone and allow them to do whatever they want with themselves, it is necessary to reach a very, very close and honest relationship. “I am all yours,” “I am completely yours,” “I believe you” are very seductive and exciting messages.
Secondly, sex is always a little about an animal, about dominance and submission. And the opportunity to make love with an immobilized partner, to completely control the process, is the softest version of dominance.
And thirdly, there is something here from the shy “it’s not me, it’s he (she!)” I once collected material about prostate massage, it turned out that most men for the first time allowed their partner to do this to them just in time to play with handcuffs. It seemed like he had nothing to do with it at all, he couldn’t do anything, his hands were tied...
How to tie
If the idea came to you spontaneously, tie it with anything - even a robe belt, even tights. Wide stationery tape is also a good option. You can play a robbery, for example.
But if you decide to carefully prepare for the transition to a new level, go to a sex shop, or even better, to some specialized site on the Internet, and see how many of the most amazing immobilization devices humanity has come up with: from fluffy handcuffs to the most complex frames to fix the body in a certain position. Listen to yourself: perhaps one of these devices will be of particular interest to you. By the way, if you like ordinary ropes, then it is also better to buy them not in a hardware store, but in a sex shop: they are special there - soft and elastic, which will not hurt the skin, will not accidentally strangle you and will not tighten blood vessels.
What then
You should not tie up your partner if you haven’t figured out what to do with him later, or if your plans are just standard coitus - your partner’s immobility will not give you any bonuses. Here's what else you can try:
- Combining fixation with a blindfold will greatly enhance the sensation. A friend told how her husband caressed her vagina with a thin slice of melon - and it was so sensual and unusual that she was remembered as one of the most vivid and acute sexual experiences in her life.
- Try to influence your partner’s body in different ways - with makeup brushes, feathers, pieces of silk or leather, lightly, barely touching, walk over the body with a hard brush - its sharp bristles in contrast with delicate silk can lead to a completely dizzying effect! Moreover: in this way you can greatly increase the sensitivity of the skin. Our receptors are trained in the same way as any other sense organs, and such exercises teach us to respond to touch and increase sensuality.
- Try the shibari technique. This is a traditional Japanese art of tying, and there are many instructions on the Internet for tying simple knots. And next to the shibari there is always a photograph. When your partner is securely (and beautifully!) tied up, you really want to take a photo of him. Glory to the one who invented digital photography and saved us from the presence of third parties when developing photographs.
And lastly: an active position gives the partner not only an advantage, but also responsibility. Erotic etiquette presupposes that someone is tied up not in order to take advantage of him, helpless, at his own discretion, but in order to give the bound maximum pleasure. And may it be very, very long!
People meet, people fall in love, get married... Why, it’s interesting to know? If you look closely, for any couple the reasons for its existence are purely individual. For some it is passion, for others it is a search for support, for others it is selfless love...
I don’t know if you were interested in the question of what connects you and your man. But I think it's worth thinking about. Because sometimes correct understanding allows you to improve a lot, and in especially advanced cases, correct it. Just by working on yourself and changing your views and habits.
Well, do you mind facing the truth? Then go ahead! Read through the questions and choose the answer option that suits you best. And then we'll count...
1. You are at home. One. He’s not there because he seems to be doing urgent work with a friend. Although he promised to call in the evening, there was still no call, and the time was late. In such a situation, you...
a) you will start to get angry without thinking about the reasons for his silence;
b) you fall into excitement, you can’t do anything, constantly checking whether the telephone receiver is in good position;
c) you feel pity: poor thing, he works so much! You think about what to pamper him with when he returns;
d) you are angry because you had to spend the evening alone.
2. Do you think you will be together in 10 years? This question must be answered sincerely - no one will know anyway... Not even me.
a) you are absolutely not sure of anything. It's hard to even imagine!
b) you are sure that this will be the case;
c) you really want it, but it’s hard to believe;
d) perhaps it will be so, but it does not depend on you.
3. You woke up early in the morning in a great mood, turned around... and your beloved is sleeping with his mouth open, from which a thin - or not so - stream of saliva flows. Your thoughts at this moment:
a) “yes, that’s it” intelligent people at least sometimes they look stupid...";
b) “God, how helpless and defenseless he is now!”
c) “Let me go cook breakfast”;
d) “I wonder, where is our camera? This needs to be captured for posterity!”
4. What do you think of his appearance and physical form?
a) you are well aware that only you think he is beautiful;
b) you think that he looks good overall, but there are men to whom he is clearly inferior;
c) something about him simply fascinates, something - on the contrary. But overall nice;
d) everything is quite ordinary. And that's enough for you.
5. Well, how can you not gossip about him with best friend! Just what are you talking about?
a) about the mortal insults he inflicted on you, scoundrel!
b) about what makes you happy about him, about pleasant actions, smart words;
c) about all sorts of little things: our daily life is filled with everything!
d) about the feelings it gives you.
6. Now evaluate your confidence in whether you have studied it well enough.
a) you know him as you know yourself, and nothing is closed to you;
b) you know something, but not much. And why?
c) most likely, yes, but from time to time his reaction frankly amazes you;
d) he is an eternal mystery.
7. How do you feel when you remember him?
a) the heart begins to beat, tension arises in the body;
b) you are filled with warm, tender feelings;
c) you are surprised: how could such an interesting man be interested in you?
d) when and how, it all depends on the circumstances.
8. Do you often think about him?
a) always!
b) if something out of the ordinary happens;
c) there are more important concerns. Why constantly be distracted from other things?
d) often, and to be precise, every minute.
9. Perfect evening with him it's...
a) gatherings in a good cafe;
b) dinner at home and intimate conversation;
c) a party with friends;
d) walk under the moonlight.
10. Imagine that tomorrow is his birthday. What will you give?
a) beautiful pajamas;
b) anything related to his hobbies;
c) sentimental novel;
d) a gift made with your own hands.
11. What has changed since you met?
a) life is becoming more and more boring, and you only talk about inevitable everyday topics;
b) every day we get better together;
c) yes, in general, nothing: we are as interesting to each other as at the very beginning;
d) sometimes I understand that I am tired of his presence, although this was not the case before.
12. Late evening, time to sleep. But suddenly his friends call, and he accepts their invitation. Everything would be fine, but you look at yourself in the mirror and understand: dirty hair, tired look... What will you do?
a) try to persuade him to postpone the visit to the next evening;
b) you agree because you don’t want to spoil a pleasant evening with any objections;
c) you agree, but say that he will have to wait for you for a long time: he needs to wash and dry his hair and do makeup;
d) you don’t care, he already knows you.
13. He tells you about failures at work. How will you behave?
a) you secretly cherish the hope that he will quickly deal with them and they will not affect your relationship in any way;
b) it’s unpleasant for you because he doesn’t achieve the success you’re looking forward to;
c) you hope that now he won’t be so busy and will pay more attention to you;
d) you don't care.
Answers
If you have the most answers a
You know his strengths and weaknesses and you love him for who he is. The most important thing for you in your union is mutual solidarity. Since you are very tolerant and can understand his mistakes, you always take his side. Of course, you can expect the same from him. Fortunately, it's incredibly rare to be disappointed. You realize that even in the best union, everyone should have a piece of their own life. You love your partner not because you need him, but you need him in order to love him.
If you have the most answers b
Hand on heart: there are quite a lot of people with whom you feel much better than with him, and yet you wouldn’t trade him for anyone. You know exactly why: you are connected by sex. However, you realize that this is not enough to be together all your life. If you want to preserve the union, it is, of course, necessary to enrich it with some other values.
If you got the most answers in
The desire to feel safe plays a huge and important role in your union. You can't imagine life without your other half. Too often you make compromises that, quite naturally, torment you. If you are unhappy, it is only because of your own fault. Pay more attention to your needs - you will not only feel freer, but also the relationship between you will become better. You have very high hopes that your partner makes your life happy.
If you have the most answers
You admire him without reservation. He's just for you ideal man. Consequently, either you don’t know him well yet, or you are tormented by the feeling that in fact he is not that valuable, and you need an ideal man to compensate for your own defeats and shortcomings. This situation, if it continues longer, may turn out to be unsafe. One is amused by tireless admiration, another is irritated and tormented, as it obliges him to avoid mistakes and blunders. This means that it would be better for both of you not to hide your weaknesses and vices in front of each other.
Why is this necessary?
There is much that is attractive about bondage. Firstly, this is an indicator of absolute trust in a partner: in order to be completely immobilized, naked and helpless in front of someone and allow them to do whatever they want with themselves, it is necessary to reach a very, very close and honest relationship. “I am all yours,” “I am completely yours,” “I believe you” are very seductive and exciting messages.
Secondly, sex is always a little about an animal, about dominance and submission. And the opportunity to make love with an immobilized partner, to completely control the process, is the softest version of dominance.
And thirdly, there is something here from the shy “it’s not me, it’s he (she!)” I once collected material about prostate massage, it turned out that most men for the first time allowed their partner to do this to them just in time to play with handcuffs. It seemed like he had nothing to do with it at all, he couldn’t do anything, his hands were tied...
How to tie
If the idea came to you spontaneously, tie it with anything - even a robe belt, even tights. Wide stationery tape is also a good option. You can play a robbery, for example.
But if you decide to carefully prepare for the transition to a new level, go to a sex shop, or even better, to some specialized site on the Internet, and see how many of the most amazing immobilization devices humanity has come up with: from fluffy handcuffs to the most complex frames to fix the body in a certain position. Listen to yourself: perhaps one of these devices will be of particular interest to you. By the way, if you like ordinary ropes, then it is also better to buy them not in a hardware store, but in a sex shop: they are special there - soft and elastic, which will not hurt the skin, will not accidentally strangle you and will not tighten blood vessels.
What then 
You should not tie up your partner if you haven’t figured out what to do with him later, or if your plans are just standard coitus - your partner’s immobility will not give you any bonuses. Here's what else you can try:
Combining fixation with a blindfold will greatly enhance the sensation. A friend told how her husband caressed her vagina with a thin slice of melon - and it was so sensual and unusual that she was remembered as one of the most vivid and acute sexual experiences in her life.
Try to influence your partner’s body in different ways - with makeup brushes, feathers, pieces of silk or leather, lightly, barely touching, walk over the body with a hard brush - its sharp bristles in contrast with delicate silk can lead to a completely dizzying effect! Moreover: in this way you can greatly increase the sensitivity of the skin. Our receptors are trained in the same way as any other sense organs, and such exercises teach us to respond to touch and increase sensuality.
Try the shibari technique. This is a traditional Japanese art of tying, and there are many instructions on the Internet for tying simple knots. And next to the shibari there is always a photograph. When your partner is securely (and beautifully!) tied up, you really want to take a photo of him. Glory to the one who invented digital photography and saved us from the presence of third parties when developing photographs.
