Ancient traditions say that it is a woman who is the creative energy of the Universe, inspiring and filling a man. And a man, receiving this energy, turns it into abundance. A man is given the ability to structure feminine energy, transforming it into material wealth and financial flows.
A woman contributes to the success of her beloved man. With warmth, care and love, acceptance, sex, a woman fills a man with her energy, sets the vector, and the man turns this energy into the energy of prosperity, success and wealth. A woman is destined by nature to BE, LIVE, JOY, LOVE. For a man - ACT, ACHIEVE, WIN.
What exactly should a woman do to inspire a man to succeed:
✔ 1.Accept him as he is. Don't remake it!
By accepting him, you acknowledge his right to be himself. You need to get rid of the idea that you better than men you know something, you understand something, that you are smarter than him. Give him the freedom to be himself. Don't try to perfect it. Acceptance means that you recognize him as a man, just like you, with his own strengths and weaknesses. You understand that he has weaknesses, just like any other man. You accept the whole person with all his valuable qualities and with all his human weaknesses.
✔ 2. Appreciate his best sides, what he does for you.
Appreciating a man means respecting his strengths and being grateful to him for what he is and for what he does for you. Think about what you can value in your man? Character traits, qualities, abilities, interests.
If you can't find anything to appreciate about your husband currently, look to past experiences. Remember how you met, why you liked him, what first attracted you to him, some events in your life together that aroused your admiration and gratitude, or difficult circumstances that he bravely dealt with.
✔ 3. Admire his masculinity.
Deep in his soul, every man wants to see in a woman admiration for his masculine virtues, namely, the abilities, talents, achievements, ideas, dreams and male body, his courage. He needs admiration like he needs bread. Just as a woman needs love, a man needs admiration.
Admiration is very important for men; they have nowhere to get it if those around them do not admire them. Admiration A man is ready to receive it from any source, but admiration from the lips of his beloved woman will be especially valuable.
Trust and confide in him, his leadership. It’s difficult when we, in the position of a mother, know everything better than him and can still tell him what he needs to do. Trust the man that he is able to accept correct solution. His decision and vision will probably coincide with yours, but this does not mean that it is not correct.
✔ 5. Allow him to be a leader, provider, protector.
The role of leader, protector and breadwinner is a man's role, it is his right and his advantage. When you have 100% confidence inside that a man should feed the family, he will begin to feed it. You just stop doing it. By taking this position, you will not only give the man his role, but also satisfy his need to be needed.
If you begin to increase a man’s masculinity, he automatically begins to move forward, grow, he begins to succeed in everything, he begins to earn good money, and become successful. In order for you to increase a man’s masculinity, you yourself need to increase your femininity.
✔ 6. Let him manage finances.
The husband is responsible for providing for the family. If a man stops earning money and does not want or cannot for a long time Finding a job is an alarming sign that the woman has the responsibility for providing for the family and the leading role. We begin to fuss, help our husband look for work, begin to make decisions for him, nag him until we take on this responsibility ourselves and go to “plow.” What should a woman really do? - “she should have the courage to sit next to her husband and not make any further movements” - accept him with love and believe that he can handle it, trust him, and wait for him to take on this responsibility.
✔ 7. Allow yourself to want and have.
If there is a woman next to a man who is not indifferent to him, and she has desires, then he will try to satisfy her desires. Men are designed that way; they like to make a woman happy. But if a woman herself suppresses her desires or does not allow herself to have what she wants, a man cannot do anything about it. He will only mirror our attitude towards himself. And we will be offended that he is such a miser.
There are no greedy men - there are women with very low self-esteem. There are no monster men, there are wives who have forgotten about themselves.
To the extent that a woman has plans, tasks, intentions and desires that have some kind of potential, they fill a man to the extent that they fill him. This is like the engine of a man's success. When a woman has no desires, she will destroy the success of a man, there is no movement forward. A man needs little; they are ascetic by nature.
✔ 8. Develop feminine qualities in yourself. To be in the female pole.
Condition is important for a woman! this is its value and its strength. When she's in female condition she is a sorceress. Then, next to her, the man becomes courageous, calm, confident, makes decisions, acts, implements his plans, and takes responsibility.
If there is a woman nearby who always talks about the past, complains all the time, judges someone, is touchy, indecisive, not adapted to anything and does not make herself happy, depressed, then the man next to her becomes irritable, pretentious, aggressive, insecure and unwilling to take responsibility. Therefore, it is important for us:
✔ 9. To be fulfilled, happy - take care of yourself.
When a woman nourishes a man, she gives him energy to realize his dreams. outside world. A woman is a well from which a man drinks and the quality of this water is very good. important. This is a woman’s work on herself; an unhappy woman who does not love herself cannot make anyone happy, she cannot give what she does not have herself. Women are the foundation of a man's success and family relationships.
The power of a woman is enormous. The problem is that women do not understand their power and the possibilities of their influence on their husbands.
✔ 10. Support his ideas and believe in his capabilities, that he can do it!
If a wife supports her husband’s ideas, even the most “crazy” ones, with trust and faith in him, this is something valuable that a woman can do for a man. The story of Henry Ford, with his idea in the engineering industry, in which few believed. But his wife, believing in her husband, helped him in the garage every evening - she held the lamp when he worked in the garage after a hard day. She supported him and believed in his idea!
Men are not biorobots who should solve all our problems, earn money, buy apartments, give us children and help around the house. Realize our dreams. Men are the same people. And they, just like us, want love. To be loved, not used. To be seen and not sawed. So that his inner world would be interesting and pleasant to someone.
And then the stingy become generous. The glove holders are starting to restore order. Workaholics pay attention to their loved ones. The insensitive ones show love, while the vulnerable and infantile ones grow up. Only love can bring about such transformations. Only love when you see more. Not only qualities and properties, not only the size of housing and cars. When you see his soul, his personality, his strengths, his potential. You see for yourself - and help him see them.
Butsovskaya T. S.
Have you ever thought about how a woman influences a man’s success?
You can find it everywhere large list advice on how to be a successful man.
What a man should be like to be successful - purposeful, courageous, determined, stubborn, persistent... and many other qualities, but nowhere does it include being loved by a Woman.
In success, men greatly underestimate the influence of a Woman and her energy on male success.
But in truth, a man’s success depends on a woman, or rather on those subtle fluids that a woman sends into space.
Only being next to a happy and loving woman, a man can fully realize his masculine potential and achieve great success.
We hear and read a lot about what a woman should be. so that a man would love her, and we talk very little about what a man should be like in order for a woman to love him, except that he should provide for his family.
We all know that feminine energy is responsible for love in relationships, men's for material well-being.
I think it’s not worth drawing boundaries between male and female roles.
Nowadays, it is not enough for a modern woman to receive from a man only material support for her and her family; a woman wants to feel the spiritual aspect in a relationship, she needs tenderness, care, SHOWS of love...
To say I earn money, what else do you need, is fundamentally not the correct way to pose the question.
It is also not enough for a man now to see a woman nearby who would dissolve in him. He wants to see a loving, smart, well-groomed and attractive woman next to him.
Sometimes a man, in pursuit of material well-being, forgets how space works. forgets that his success and well-being directly depends on the influence of feminine energy.
Besides him manhood and abilities, an important role is played by how the woman who is next to him feels and feels.
Only in one case will a man be lucky when a woman next to him is happy and loves and is loved by him.
Positive feminine energy creates a positive space for her husband and his success.
If a woman is offended, upset, does not feel love from her husband, then luck and prosperity will turn away from the man and he will not understand why.
Feminine energy is associated with the energy of space and a woman can influence current events very quickly.
If every man analyzes his life and compares the waves of his success with what was happening in his life at that moment personal life. I think he will find a connection between his successes and what happened in his personal relationship with a woman.
A man gets into trouble in business when the woman next to him feels bad, even if she doesn’t tell him about it.
A woman is endowed with great power. Female energy interacts with the energy of space and female thoughts, her mood influence the surrounding energy flows, shaping reality.
For a long time, everyone has known the fact that a woman gives energy to a man and it is on this that a man’s success and the amount of money he earns depends.
I think it would be completely wrong to divide the space and place the care of relationships only on women’s shoulders.
I think relationships are a two-way street and only with reciprocal flows are relationships possible.
You can talk as much as you like about how love works miracles, but no matter how much a woman loves, if a man does not give back the love he receives, then there can be no talk of any exchange of energy.
If a person receives, then this gives rise to a natural need to give.
If a person receives and does not give anything, then he will be destroyed.
If a man receives love from a woman, but does not give her his male energy - in the form of care, love, tenderness, responsibility for her and family, in material support, then female energy in this case will destroy the man.
Therefore, as a woman, giving, but not receiving what her feminine essence needs, will suffer.
It is women's suffering and discontent that will come into contact with the energy of space and will destroy a man.
A man who can awaken a woman’s love for himself will be able to achieve a lot in life.
Loving is the ability of high spirituality.
Not all women and men are spiritually pure and capable of love in principle. Many people's souls are often twisted by deep childhood traumas. Such people need to think about their spirituality and increase its level in themselves, and then think about relationships and love.
When two spiritually poor people meet and the other is needed only to RECEIVE - love, attention, care, then such a relationship is doomed.
In this case, the determining factor in choosing a partner becomes the following criterion:
- How does he (she) treat me?
Not a criterion:
- What kind of person is next to me?
- What are its advantages and disadvantages?
- What can I give him?
When meeting a person, first of all you need to understand what you can give him (her).
Much depends on the wife in the husband’s life, because a woman is closely connected with the power of subtle matter.
It is very important that a woman truly appreciates a man's intelligence and logic.
Mind and logic are masculine strength and masculine nature.
But a woman cannot appreciate if these qualities and virtues are not there.
A man must take care of his masculine qualities.
A woman should see and feel a MAN.
It is to the mind and reason that respect arises.
By respecting a man, a woman thereby gives her husband a high position in the family and her soul.
What kind of man should a woman respect, love and recognize in him? male strength and male power.
1. A man must provide a woman with the safety of her space - physical and economic. A woman should feel protected.
2. A man must earn money not only for the necessities of life, but also for clothes and jewelry.
3. Don't upset the Woman.
4. Don't make her cry.
5. Don't offend.
6. Treat her tenderly and caringly.
A man must understand that he must give a woman the care of a father, the friendship of a brother, the passion of a lover, and at the same time respect her freedom.
Having given all this to a woman, men can be sure that the woman will respect and love you, she will feel like a WOMAN, and when a Woman comes into contact with her feminine nature, then next to such a Woman the Man will have no other choice but to be Successful, Lucky and Strong! !!
They say “Look for the Woman”... and it's true. Look for a woman whom you will love, who will respect and love you.
A person who successfully achieves his goals, feels this himself and has the recognition of others for this is called a successful person.
He is distinguished from others by a number of abilities, skills and habits. Among them we can list the following: responsibility, self-discipline, self-control, effective thinking, the ability to learn, the habit of developing.
A successful person always demonstrates confident behavior and the ability to be a leader. Be energetic and lead healthy image life is not a way of life, it is habits, like, in fact, setting goals for yourself, and many other traits.
When successful person called a woman is always cool. And yet, a successful man is many times cooler. True, not every representative of the strong half of humanity knows (or wants to admit) that his success, like, by the way, health, and even the behavior of children, depend solely on the kind of woman who is next to him, on her condition and her sexuality !
And these are not just words, this is the conclusion that psychologist, coach, personal growth trainer Alexander Palienko came to after many years of studying and researching this issue.
“If you're with a woman who has great acceptance, it makes you move forward without stopping,” he says. “And you begin to be a man who is a dream for any woman, but in fact it’s not you - it’s your woman.”
The psychologist explains this phenomenon simply: because we have a man who is courageous, calm, makes decisions, acts, implements his plans, self-confident, respects himself and respects others in abundance, has a sense of humor, and is rich.
That is, when a man is rich, he is calm, when a man is poor, he is irritable. It's the same as a hungry man and a well-fed man - they are different.
As for the woman, Alexander Palienko continues, she is sexy, charming, feminine, accepting, sensual, driven, forgiving, material (very important material, not spiritual) and loving.
And so that the man is courageous, calm, makes decisions, acts, implements his plans, etc. he needs a woman. After all, whatever a woman puts there will be there. “I emphasize this again,” the psychologist emphasized.
As a result, if a woman has small desires, then a man will have small victories. If a woman has great desires, then the man will have great victories. If a woman has global plans and goals, tasks, but she makes herself happy, works on herself and at the same time watches her figure, goes to the gym, eats right, buys good shampoos, communicates with the people she likes, then .e. she takes care of herself, then she can fill a man. If she just lies there, doesn’t go anywhere and at the same time dreams about everything, there will be no sense in it, because she will give the man a pacifier.
Why, because she herself is not realized, the expert explains.
“Only a Yan woman can make a man. A Yan woman is one who knows what she wants and accepts it all, but at the same time still acts in order to make herself happy,” personal growth coach Alexander Palienko draws the attention of the stronger sex.
Every man has a natural desire for success. Sometimes it may seem that a person has lost this potential, this happens due to constant criticism, improper upbringing or a series of major failures. In fact, the vital energy a man needs to achieve success does not go away; it lives in a man as long as he is alive. Any woman can help her partner on the path to success. Thanks to her energy, she is able to give a man impetus to action, and the higher the level of her energy, the greater heights a person can achieve. A woman can help her beloved man. With her care, love, and warmth, she fills a man with her energy, which the man transforms into the energy of well-being and prosperity. Therefore, it is very important that there are as few scandals and misunderstandings as possible in the family.
Actions of a woman on the path to a man's success
- The ability to appreciate the best qualities in a man. A woman should be grateful to a man for what he does for her. Psychologists recommend thinking about it as often as possible. best qualities and the virtues of your loved one. If it suddenly seems difficult to find this moment positive traits in a person, then you should plunge into the past and remember the period of formation of the relationship and what exactly attracted you to this man. It wouldn’t hurt to go over difficult situations in your head from which the man found a way out.
- Acceptance of a man. There is no need to remake a man; it would be more correct to give a man the opportunity to be himself, accepting a person as he is, with all his advantages and disadvantages.
- Admiration for masculinity. Every man in his soul desires admiration and approval. He needs to be appreciated for his talents, abilities, achievements and masculinity. It is especially important for him when his beloved woman admires him.
- The desire of men to make a woman happy. If a woman has desires, then men strive to satisfy them. This does not happen only when a woman herself suppresses her desires. In this case, the man loses the desire to care for the woman, he stops giving her gifts and fulfilling her requests. A woman’s desires are a kind of motivator for a man to achieve success.
- Acceptance of male authority. You need to learn to trust a man in making decisions. Even if a woman has her own solution to a problem, the initiative should be given to the man. A woman in this position ends up getting more.
- A man is a breadwinner, a leader, a protector. If a woman is one hundred percent sure that her husband is the breadwinner, then so be it. By giving this role completely to the man, the woman thereby satisfies his need to be needed. By thus increasing his masculinity, a woman gets a man who can and wants to achieve success.
- Feminine qualities as a stimulant for action for a man. Only next to a real woman a man can feel his masculinity and strength. Next to such a woman, a man takes responsibility, strives for action, becomes calm and confident. On the contrary, a woman who complains all the time, is offended, is depressed, and often remembers the past, can only count on a man who does not want to take responsibility, who is indecisive, irritable, and aggressive.
- Financial management. The situation when a man loses his job happens quite often. But if he does not want and is not looking for work, then this is an alarming sign that the woman has taken on the burden of providing for the family and managing finances. The woman begins to nag the man, makes decisions for him, and, ultimately, takes leadership. What can be done in this situation? You should arm yourself with patience and wait until the man takes responsibility and begins to act.
- Faith in the capabilities and ideas of a man. There are many examples in history when the craziest ideas of men subsequently had enormous success. Women should believe in their men and support their endeavors. Once you kill the initiative in a man, you can forget for a long time that he will begin to act. You should show interest in his dreams and plans and participate in their implementation.
Only a woman who loves herself can fill a man with the necessary energy that will fuel him on the path to success. A woman is a spring from which a man drinks, and the man’s health depends on the quality of this water. Therefore, in order to see a successful, self-sufficient person next to her, a woman must constantly work on herself. A man's success depends 50% on the woman next to him.
