In this article you will learn everything about the psychology of a man in a relationship with a woman. Eat general rules, to which men unconsciously obey. First of all, a man loves his condition next to a woman. His attitude towards her will depend on how he feels when he is with her. And his condition next to you depends entirely on you.
How should you behave with a man so that he feels great and your union is happy and harmonious? What is the psychology of a man in a relationship with a woman? I present to you 5 steps in relationships that will lead you to your overall victory.
Psychology of a man in a relationship with a woman - 5 steps
The main function of a man is to achieve his goals and share their achievement with a woman. A woman’s function is to inspire a man to achieve, support him on the path to a goal, and after he has achieved it, thank him and create conditions for achieving a new one.
Many will now think with indignation - what about a woman’s goals? Should she not achieve anything? Of course, she can achieve goals, perhaps even more ambitious and global than a man, but in a relationship with a man she must be a conductor of energy, give him the strength to succeed, and also put the man in conditions under which he will want to achieve more. Without performing these main functions, there will be no equilibrium state and harmonious energy exchange in the relationship, which means the relationship will not be happy and, most likely, will not last long. How to understand male psychology and build long-term and healthy relationships?
So, the psychology of a man in a relationship with a woman - 5 steps towards your common victory:
Step to Victory #1: Entering the Discomfort Zone
In order for the main male goal of achieving success to be successfully fulfilled, a woman must create conditions for this. If a man feels good, he has no reason to leave the cave and follow the mammoth. He will lie on the couch and drink beer. After all, no one has ever achieved goals while being in their comfort zone.
Therefore, a woman should be able to take a man out of his comfort zone. This must be done very carefully. You need to constantly let your man feel that you are happy with life, that everything suits you, but it would be nice to add a little. In other words, you should not let your man know that you are completely unhappy. You just wish there was more. It is a normal desire for any person to want more. This means that you do not stand still and want to develop.
Your desire may be a simple trip to the cinema and a Mercedes latest model. But you don’t need to go to your husband now and, with your hands on your hips, repeat how unhappy you are and how you want to receive bouquets of flowers every week. Instead, you need to make a man initially feel that you love him, he is valuable to you, you believe in him for the simple reason that he is a man. You are happy with the current state of things. But it would be nice, or rather, you would really like to add this to your life (fill in your own). Thus, with your desires you will expand his comfort zone.
Step to victory #2: A woman who motivates to do more
A man's job is to achieve and win. And a man needs a woman in order to properly motivate him to achieve. In order to take a man out of his comfort zone, sometimes it is not enough to simply say that you would like something more. Many men need motivation. There are two types of motivation in the world – “motivation from” and “motivation for”. In other words, he may do something out of fear of losing or out of desire to gain. This is otherwise called motivation for success and motivation to avoid failure. You can read more about them Here.
I always recommend using success motivation - with such motivation, a person’s actions are aimed at achieving his goal, and not at avoiding failure. Such a person is proactive, active, and has a strong need to achieve success.
How to motivate your man with success motivation?
First, there is no need to talk about what might happen if he does not achieve the goal. He should not be afraid to make a mistake, but, in contrast, he should truly want to succeed.
Secondly, do not notice the obstacles in his path, do not focus attention on them. Or treat them as opportunities to see areas of growth. You must understand that every mistake takes a person one step closer to the goal. Any obstacle expands opportunities and knowledge about the goal, which means that with each new error a person is getting closer and closer to his dream. Read more about how to be guaranteed to achieve your goals.
Step to Victory #3: Faith
How underrated is the power of faith in relationships! Only by sincerely believing in your man can you make him a successful, wealthy and purposeful person.
And how easily you can kill his strength in a man if you don’t believe in him! Many women do this for years, turning their husband from a successful man into a poor weakling lying on the couch. Women destroy a man’s self-confidence by saying: “You can’t do anything, I’d rather do everything myself!” or “You never knew how to fix a toilet, let’s better call a plumber” or “I’m used to your meager salary, and I haven’t been expecting anything for a long time!”
This lack of faith is a demotivating factor for any man. Disrespect and devaluation of your husband leads to the fact that he begins to treat himself the same way. He ceases to believe and respect himself, and certainly does not achieve his goals. He does not feel like a hero, a winner, a strong and successful man, because his woman does not admire him and does not believe in him.
In order for your man to become resourceful and successful, sincerely believe in him! Talk about it, show it, let him understand by any means that you truly believe! You have no doubt that he will succeed! And then he will lay the whole world at your feet.
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Step to Victory #4: Desire
It is important that a woman wants something all the time. As I already said, a person never achieves his goals while in his comfort zone. In other words, a man will not be successful if he and his wife are happy with their lives. Therefore, a woman’s task is to constantly take a man out of his comfort zone. At the same time, it is important that she dream about something purely and sincerely, without reproaches and discontent. She dreamed and believed that it was her man who could make her dream come true. When a woman dreams of something with all her soul, the fulfillment of this desire becomes law for a man. And he won't rest until he gets what she wants.
And if she doesn’t ask or want anything, the man perceives this as a sign of his own uselessness. Why do you need it if you don’t ask for a star from the sky? And he would be so pleased to get it for you!
A man needs to constantly achieve, do something for his beloved, this is the essence of men. To do this, a woman must want something all the time. A spacious apartment is, of course, great, but isn’t a house by the sea better? Silver is wonderful, but white gold is doubly better.
You may decide that no man will like such a woman who is always dissatisfied with the current state of affairs. But in reality, these are the only kind of women who get everything they want.
And at the opposite pole there are women who constantly repeat: “I don’t need anything, with my dear one there is heaven in the hut! I don't need money, I don't need flowers. If only he didn’t go anywhere.” Such women themselves have no idea what they are doing with their words. They not only deprive themselves of a good life, but also kill in a man the desire to achieve his goals, the desire and opportunity to become a winner. A man is ready to do anything for the woman he loves. But what should he do if she openly demonstrates that she doesn’t need anything from him? Such women condemn themselves and their men to poverty.
When a woman asks, she increases male energy, turns on and strengthens the protector in him. He feels stronger than her, and is ready to go and achieve.
Step to Victory #5: Gratitude
Many people probably think to themselves: “Constantly want something, and even bring a man into a zone of discomfort? No one needs such a woman at all!” Yes, yes, that's right. If you constantly want more, you will motivate your man to do more. With yours light hand he will want and do, want and do. But the most important thing! Don't forget to give thanks.
Moreover, you need to thank him not after he gives you a Mercedes, but long before that. You can be grateful for anything. For example, because he gives you a feeling of security, makes you happy, shows signs of attention... Yes, you yourself know what you are grateful to him for. The main thing is to learn to do it more often and from the heart.
Sincere, pure female gratitude from the bottom of my heart is the key mechanism that will make your man successful, rich, resourceful, and happy. Loving and beloved.
Your desires should go hand in hand with gratitude. A man is designed this way; if he feels gratitude, he wants to do more and more for you.
There is nothing better for him than to see you happy, looking at him with true admiration. Having seen this once, he will go to conquer new heights, again and again, just to see this look filled with gratitude again.
I will share with you one secret technique that makes dreams come true. If you want to get something, tell the man sincerely and emotionally, with all your heart: “This will make me so happy! I will be so grateful to you!” It really works. Your every desire, every whim - he will do everything just to see that he is a winner for you.
If you are confused in a relationship
The article I wrote is suitable for any couple, and in almost any situation the proposed steps can lead to happy consequences. But what to do if the relationship is built incorrectly or lacks the foundation at all - trust, the ability to talk to each other, loyalty, openness, mutual understanding? In order to understand exactly how your couple can build a prosperous family model that will benefit both of you and develop you and your relationship, you can contact a specialist.
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Nowadays everything is different
Nowadays, a woman has taken on a difficult task - she creates a family, gives birth and raises children, while still managing to make a career. This fact makes the task of realizing a man and his tasks through a woman difficult to achieve. A woman is unable to inspire and support a man, to give him her energy, when she herself is falling apart, and she still needs to clean the apartment, check homework and cook dinner. Yes, it's a difficult situation.
In my opinion, there is only one way out. The man brings the bulk of the income to the family, and the woman must choose a job she likes, doing what she likes. Work and enjoy it. Thus, while working, she will not waste her energy in vain. Receiving satisfaction from the process, on the contrary, she will increase her energy and strengthen it when returning home. 
The main function in the family, no matter what, should remain the male energy that a woman gives. This flow must flow continuously, without obstacles, transforming from one type of energy to another. A woman must find balance in life and be able to turn her responsibilities into a source of inspiration. Otherwise…
Conclusion
So, the psychology of a man in a relationship with a woman is the psychology of a winner. Men are designed to win and achieve. Only a woman sometimes, without knowing it, kills the achiever in a man and turns him into a couch potato. So, a summary of how to cultivate him in a man main role– role of the winner:
Step one. Constantly create conditions in which he will move on. Winners become in the zone of discomfort.
Step two. Constantly motivate and encourage him on the way to his goal.
Step three. Believe in him. Say at least once a day: “I know you can do it! I'm confident in you. You are a winner."
Step four. Wish. It doesn’t matter what – a Chanel bag or a new chair. The main thing is to be sincere and from the bottom of my heart.
And the last, most important step. Give thanks. With love.
Let me explain one last time. Before you start actively wanting more, you need to deeply imbue a man with strength and energy, give him such an impetus to action that can charge him for a real breakthrough. You need to sincerely, from the bottom of your heart, love, respect, appreciate, thank, ask for help and not doubt him for a single moment, believing in him for the simple reason that he is your man.
I believe that these simple steps will lead you two to your common great success!
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However, often each of us sins by trying to interpret the other through the prism of our understanding. And this immediately leads to the idea that he does not value relationships.
Although in fact he only has a different way of expressing sympathy and feelings, different from ours. We often lack the opportunity to look at a situation through someone else's eyes. We do not put ourselves in the place of a man, we only imagine what we would do in this situation. Of course, this approach negatively affects mutual understanding and relationships in general. To build successful relationships, it is important for us to understand why men behave this way, why do they need us, are they in love with us or is it just a passing infatuation?
Types of men
Every man, just like a woman, strives for some kind of goal. It is important for one to prove his importance to others, another strives to be the center of any company, to leave a positive impression of himself, a third craves power, a fourth is important to help others, someone is used to only taking without giving anything in return. Likewise, in a relationship with a woman, guys pursue different goals: family, sex, romance, partnership, promotion own status at the expense of a woman, friendship, the desire not to be alone.
Globally, men are divided into two types:
Of course, it is rare to meet a man who clearly belongs to one type. Male psychology is much more complex; these are just the vectors of its development. A man may just be a little less “alpha” or not so dependent on you. However, you will always clearly define which type it belongs to.
It is worth noting that the desire to find a man who combines both types is a utopia. There are no men who are simultaneously self-centered, self-confident and capable of doing anything for a girl. The maximum you can count on is that a man will develop over the course of his life and develop additional ways of interacting with women, trying to adjust his behavior. But even in this case, he will remain who he was initially, and in a number of situations this will still manifest itself. Be prepared for this and don’t demand the impossible from a man!
Men in relationships with women
Initially, when meeting a new girl, every man expects a short-term relationship. None of the guys, if he does not set his life goal to live for the sake of his family, seeks to connect his fate with one woman. Men are polygamous by nature and are quite happy with it. None of them will risk consciously looking for ways to lose freedom, the only exceptions are men, according to 
for some reason incapable of such behavior or following strict rules of their own morality that do not allow it. More often, there are cases when men talk about their intention to build a long-term relationship only in order to get sex from a girl. This practice is more widespread than the initial desire to find a spouse.
The man is a hunter. When communicating with a woman, this quality manifests itself more strongly than ever. It is important for a man to conquer you. Therefore, you should not allow him to get what he wants very quickly. Perhaps it will bring you physiological satisfaction. However, most likely, in such a situation the young man will not be ready for a long-term relationship. For a guy to want to be with you, he must first be emotionally invested in getting your attention. If everything came to him too easily, then the desire to value it will not come from anywhere.
In order to understand whether a man considers you as his potential girlfriend/wife, it is enough to pay attention to some facts of your communication:
Another feature that is worth remembering when building a relationship with a man is natural male polygamy. Almost all men want to cheat, but not everyone can do it. More often, men only imagine an intimate relationship with another girl than actually cheat. Of course, you don’t want to look deceived, and often girls try to control a man, which outwardly manifests itself as increased jealousy. If you limit your young man, looking for evidence, this will only lead to his increased caution in hiding evidence, but will not save him from treason. Try to give a man what he needs when communicating with women. This is the only way you can protect yourself from betrayal. Remember that men live by logic. They often do not understand our emotional experiences. And it’s not that they don’t want to understand them, it’s just that this method of communication is most often simply inaccessible to them or is extremely poorly developed. In a long-term relationship, of course 
a man learns to notice changes in his woman’s mood. However, to develop this skill he needs time and your help. Try to explain to the man what is happening to you in his language, try to find connections and show them to him. Only you can teach your man to understand your emotionality.
Women and men are essentially different creatures. We live by different values and react to the world differently. However, if we strive to understand men, they will notice this and gain a desire to understand us. Men cannot read minds, particularly women's minds. Moreover, many of them are sure that this is a waste of time, since women themselves do not understand what they want. Only when you show your man your desires and say what you want from him will he be able to understand you and, perhaps, help you realize your needs.
Most couples break up only because the girl was unable or was embarrassed to convey her wishes to the man, hoping that he would figure it out on his own. Don't bring your relationship to a dead end from which it will be difficult to get out. Solve all problems as they arise. Only openness and sincerity in relationships can maintain mutual understanding and comfort in a couple.
Men often like to repeat that it is very difficult for them to understand women. However, male psychology in relationships with women also remains the biggest mystery for the fair sex. Let's try to fill in some of the gaps.
Significant other
Many men often claim that girls are very important to them. Representatives of the stronger sex really love with their eyes, based primarily on their own ideas about female beauty. Any man will choose a girl based on her external data. And only later, when the relationship develops, will he pay attention to her inner world.
Signs of male love
Men show their emotions much more modestly. Therefore, it is quite difficult to accurately determine whether a guy is interested in you or not. What secrets of male psychology do you need to know in order to understand that a man is in love?
1. If a man is in love, then he will strive to spend as much free time as possible with the girl. It will eradicate meetings with friends and fishing trips. True, this rule does not apply to work. If a man is passionate about his career, then you should not demand to make a choice between you and work.
2. If a man has feelings for a woman, then he will allow her to use his things. We are talking not only about his shirt, but about his car, computer and phone. The peculiarities of male psychology are such that actions for them are a rather serious step.
3. Oddly enough, but a serious quarrel often indicates that the guy really loves the girl. a man will only be there if he really wants to be close to the woman.
4. One of the most significant signs that a man is serious about you is that he not only starts talking about it, but also takes any steps to help and be closer to you. Even the most insignificant ones, such as fixing a faucet or buying a mixer.
Serious relationship
When a spark has already run between them, the man’s train of thought begins to change. Male psychology in a relationship with a woman after starting a relationship completely changes its perspective. Now it is not enough for him to just have a beautiful appearance and he needs to understand whether the chosen girl is suitable for him to live with.
If your apartment is constantly a creative mess, and other than scrambled eggs, you have nothing to surprise your chosen one with, then your future relationship may be in jeopardy. In addition, a woman doesn’t need to push herself either. and a terry robe is, of course, good, but if you walk around unkempt in front of your husband, and at work or to meet with friends you dress and put on makeup like you’re on a catwalk, then your significant other will be at least offended.
Male psychology in relationships with women is that representatives of the male half of the population actually want, just like women, to find an interesting and reliable life partner. But they come up with many more obstacles for themselves to realize this dream.
Every woman dreams of a strong relationship, a faithful husband, and harmony in the family. In order for there to be mutual understanding between a man and a woman, you need to understand the nature, psychology, and peculiarities of thinking of the other person. And not just understand, but take these features into account. To better understand men, reveal their secrets, and understand their psychology in relationships with women, read this article.
And to find out how to make a guy fall in love with you, read
Secret one: a man does not understand hints and cannot read minds
One of the most important differences between a man and a woman is that a man is straightforward, he does not like hints, or rather does not understand them. Quarrels in couples often occur on this basis. The girl wants something from the man, but does not tell him it directly, but hints. The man, naturally, does not understand the hints. He does not like all sorts of “extra” information, pouring water and vague statements.
The girl immediately gets offended: you don’t understand me, you don’t hear me. But he cannot understand what they want from him. And, if such situations arise often, then grievances accumulate, and in the end it can all develop into a serious quarrel.
Therefore, girls, we conclude: a man needs to tell him directly what you want. Don't be afraid to ask him for anything. Men love to help the women they love and take care of them. This is how they feel important. They are flattered that they are needed.
Also, men cannot read women's minds. It happens that a girl dreams of her beloved giving her some kind of surprise. In her thoughts, she had already imagined everything in the smallest detail. In reality, he does not know about her desire and will never guess. It turns out that the girl came up with it herself, she was offended that the guy did not meet her expectations.
Dear girls, talk to your men. Tell them about your desires. Be honest. Then you will be able to avoid unfounded grievances.
Secret two: a man loves with his eyes
I think all girls know this “secret”. It is important for a man that his companion looks good. Also, in the head of every man there is a formed type that he likes. And a man will give preference to the girl who fits his personal template.
You need to take care of yourself not only during the period of starting a relationship, but throughout your life. After marriage, many women relax, neglect themselves, gain weight, making excuses like childbirth, genetics, weak willpower and other similar phrases. Therefore, unfortunately, there are a lot of divorces in the first 5 years after marriage.
The man is used to seeing beautiful girl in front of you. And when she becomes completely different, I’m not always ready to put up with it. Moreover, there are many others around beautiful ladies. Therefore, dear girls, do not think that just because he got married, he will be yours forever. Always remain well-groomed and maintain the weight at which he likes you.
Men also love variety. To prevent him from being drawn to try “another fruit,” try to change. Changes can be made every 40 days. It could be a different makeup, a different clothing style, a different hairstyle. Also pay attention to your loungewear. You shouldn’t walk around for many years in the same greasy robe with a ponytail on your head. It is also good to have bedding in different colors. This feeling of novelty excites a man, and your relationship will grow stronger.
But, in pursuit of changing your appearance, don’t overdo it. Men do not like too provocative makeup, very long nails and other excesses. Don't lose your sense of style, remember that everything should be in moderation.
Secret three: men love compliments
It is generally accepted that men love with their eyes, and girls with their ears. In fact, men are also not averse to listening to praises in their honor. They really like it when they are praised and told how strong and courageous he is, how grateful you are to him for his help. It is important for a man to feel like a protector. Therefore, do not forget to tell him more often how good he is and how much you appreciate him.
A common situation in a family is when a wife constantly nags her husband. It constantly drips into his brain that he does nothing, doesn’t help her, plays on the computer all day or lies on the sofa. A man at this moment will never have the desire to help and do what he is asked to do. He would rather run away from home so as not to hear anything.
Therefore, there is no need to put pressure on him and be indignant. Tell him how strong, skillful he is, or whatever is needed according to the situation. Be feminine and weak, then he will want to help. And don't forget to thank him later. In this way, you will give a man the opportunity to become a hero for you, and that’s all he dreams of.
Secret four: a man does not think about his beloved all day long
Girls are mostly sentimental and romantic. If a girl is in love, she constantly thinks about her chosen one, dreams of a future together, thinks about what to name her future children. A man is not inclined to devote too much time to thoughts about his beloved.
A man is more practical and less romantic. He thinks about more practical things that need to be done. But he won’t spend a long time sorting out outfits for a date and won’t fantasize about your upcoming meeting.
Some men give women romantic gifts, but to do this they have to make an effort on themselves, step over their comfort zone.
Secret five: men experience emotions too
It is believed that men are stingy with emotions and do not know how to show them. In fact, they feel too. But from childhood, boys are taught that men don’t cry, that “only women cry,” that you need to be restrained. Many boys grow up without ever learning to open up. They experience all their emotions within themselves, which is bad for their health.
Doctors say women live longer because they cry. Tears make it easier general condition, negative energy leaves with them. And men, holding back and accumulating their emotions, destroy themselves from the inside.
If you help your man open up, help him learn to express his emotions, then this will benefit your union. Teach him to express his tenderness, his resentment, his disappointment. And he will be very grateful to you.
Secret six: men don’t like being chased
Guys want to be conquerors. The more difficult it is for them to achieve something, the more valuable it is. You should never run after a man, because he will no longer be interested. Perhaps he will take advantage of you, but it is unlikely to develop into something more.
There is no need to make various sacrifices for the sake of a man, to enter into a fight with other girls. In the guy’s eyes, you will fall and become devalued, but he, of course, will be pleased that they are pursuing him. Thus, his price will increase, yours will fall.
What kind of women do men love?
A woman should be cheerful
Men don't like girls with a sour expression, who constantly whine and burden them with their problems. If a girl has a sense of humor, then this is a big plus in relationships with guys.
The house must be tidy and clean
Men do not like to return to a house where there are mountains of unwashed dishes and a chronic mess. How you achieve cleanliness is your business, either clean it yourself or hire someone. The man himself does not like to do these “female” things; it is psychologically difficult for him to do cleaning. Just like a woman is not comfortable doing “man’s” work.
A woman should be economical
Mostly men entrust the family budget to women. And they want the money they earn to be spent wisely. If a woman lets them go to waste, then for a man this is a signal that his work is not valued. In this case, the man feels not loved, but a sponsor, which causes displeasure in him.
A man likes it when a woman asks him for permission before doing anything.
This is especially true for important steps. If you decide to go to yoga or go on a diet, consult a man. Because then disagreements and scandals may begin on this basis. A man wants to be respected and listened to. He feels jealous if a woman has a new “teacher” whom she obeys.
Men love honest girls
If you are caught in a lie, it will be difficult for a man to forgive you. Try to be frank with your chosen ones.
Men like interesting women, not dummies
You definitely need to engage in self-development, otherwise the guy will simply not be interested in being in your company over time. He will begin to look for other interlocutors, both male and female. So don't just focus on everyday problems, read books, be interesting, feminine and affectionate.
A woman should support her man
Support for men is very important. Remember the proverb: behind every great man is great woman. If you support your boyfriend/husband, he will be able to achieve a lot. The main thing is to convince him that he will succeed. And don’t buzz in your ear that he’s a loser, spineless, a wimp, and the like. Remember that words have great power, never insult men. With such words you kill his love for you.
Also in at different ages men like different women. At 20 years old, guys want to see a cheerful, easy-going, beautiful girl next to them. At 30, priorities change. A woman’s care for a man, her ability to maintain family comfort while he earns money, comes to the fore. At 40, many men experience a midlife crisis. At this moment, he may decide that the woman next to him is not suitable for him. Many divorces occur during this period.
Someone said that a man and a woman are creatures from different planets. They coexist together on Earth, create families, but are still unable to fully understand each other. For many generations, women have been trying to find the key to male psychology, but to no avail.
Male thinking is a real mystery for females
The most important thing for ladies, without a doubt, is to comprehend the psychology of men in love and relationships. Thousands of broken women's hearts around the world, broken families, a persistent trend towards an increase in the number of divorces simply oblige the fairer sex to study the psychology of men.
Women are trying to comprehend the way men think and build a system of harmonious relationships. From time immemorial, keepers of the hearth have been trying to tame and domesticate these restless hunters.
Psychology of love
Experts in behavioral motives have recently found the answer to the question of what is the psychology of men in love. They identified four main functional motives:
- leadership in everything and in relationships, first of all;
- the primordial need to conquer prey, and in this case a woman;
- the need, after an exhausting hunt, to find relaxation near the hearth;
- desire to constantly attract female attention.
Let us now consider how these motives look in practice.
It is no secret that the psychology of a man in love is based on conquering the lady of his heart. And the more inaccessible the beautiful prey, the more excited the hunter gets. This instinct is inherent in every man and is decisive in the psychology of love. A male overcome with desire is ready for any feats and recklessness in the name of his beloved. The main goal is a woman's heart.
However, a girl should not get carried away for too long in the role of unapproachable prey. The ardor and excitement may fade, and the man will lose interest. A woman’s trick lies in the ability to seize the moment when feelings are heated to the limit, and you can already move into the category of a well-deserved trophy.
A girl should not naively believe that gifts, exploits, increased attention and ardent confessions will last forever. This is the prerogative of the flower-candy period. There is no need to be too offended by a man for his absence when the relationship has already been quite long.
Important psychological aspect typical male behavior is his desire for leadership. A man wants to be the head of the family, the leader in relationships. He demands respect for himself and does not tolerate attempts to lead himself.
This behavior is largely predetermined by the characteristics of traditional upbringing. From childhood, a little girl is prepared to be a wife and mother, offering her dolls and dishes as toys. The boy, on the contrary, is taught to be strong and courageous. Psychology family life starts almost from the cradle.
A man should feel like a leader
The psychology of men in love is contradictory. On the one hand, he wants independence, and on the other, home comfort and attention. Men love to be praised and admired for their achievements. A woman should do this as often as possible. Attention to a man will result in concern for the woman herself.
The most difficult aspect of a man’s psychology is his polygamy. He will always pay attention to other representatives of the fair sex. A woman’s task is to make the comparison in her favor.
If a woman is wise and builds relationships correctly, then her chosen one will not look for pleasure on the side.
Knowledge of a man's psychological instinct - the best remedy to build harmonious relationships.
Psychology of marriage
The psychology of men in marriage is even more complex. A woman faces new pitfalls along this path:
- fear of entering into marriage, which is presented as a complete restriction of freedom;
- the desire to be a leader manifests itself even more, and it does not depend on who financially supports the family;
- the man thinks that household- a purely female sphere.
A man does not tolerate any encroachment on his freedom. Marriage seems like a burden to him, so the thought of a stamp in his passport can send him into a state of panic.
Spouses must have personal space. Mutual friends and spending time together are just as important for a happy family life as the opportunity to spend an evening without your significant other. This applies to both men and women.
A woman’s wisdom lies in the skillful manipulation of a man’s basic instincts for the benefit of the common family hearth. He should feel like the head of the family, even if in fact he is not.
Psychology of sexual relations
Happy relationships are impossible without harmony in intimate life. Sex plays an important part in the study of male psychology:
- a man must be sure that his partner is always happy with him;
- a man wants to remain a leader in his sexual life, but sometimes gives his partner the opportunity to dominate in order to bring a little variety;
- if a man is not satisfied with sex with his partner, then, alas, he will begin to look for pleasure on the side.
A woman should always remember that a man’s sexual psychology is based on his desire to be the best for his partner. She must constantly praise him and be extremely careful in case of failures in bed.
When the first passion subsides, harmony in sex will be ensured by love, mutual understanding and knowledge of the subtlest nuances of the partner’s preferences.
It is important for a man that a woman receives satisfaction. This gives him confidence in his own abilities.
One of the common mistakes of female behavior that can destroy a union is jealousy and suspicion. Knowing about the natural polygamy of male psychology, some women cannot overcome their mistrust. Constant control, reproaches and scandals will only alienate a man, who will perceive them as an encroachment on his freedom.
During lovemaking, a man must be sure that his partner is in seventh heaven with pleasure. Under no circumstances should a woman hold back or be embarrassed to show emotions. In some cases, it wouldn’t hurt to even play along.
Every woman can learn to tie a man to her. To do this, you just need to study well the psychology of the stronger sex and be able to correctly apply this knowledge. Strong, harmonious relationships are by no means a myth, but the result of painstaking work in which both must participate.
Love and mutual understanding will become companions of the couple where both partners have studied psychological signs satisfaction and dissatisfaction with current relationships. Male psychology is a task that is quite capable of a wise and patient woman.
