Each of us has a completely unique vocabulary. This set is a powerful tool for self-programming: as we speak, so we live. What we declare is what we have. Words are the clothing of our thoughts, the energy of words has a dense structure, and this energy forms matter much faster (compared to the energy of thought). There is a lot of evidence for this, but still we will give one more, and it is so serious that it is unconditionally recognized as a discovery capable of healing the most. Particularly strong in this regard is
This discovery was made by the German Pezeshkian, who discovered (and then learned to neutralize) words that program body diseases.
Over time, Pezeshkian convincingly proved that these words are present in the vocabulary of all people. It turned out that there is not a single person who would be protected from words that program diseases, materialize them in the body and do not allow them to be healed. Dr. Pezeshkian combined these words into the name “organic speech.” This is truly dangerous and destructive energy that can undermine even the most good health. Pay attention to how masterfully the destructive words are disguised. I just can’t believe that such seemingly harmless words can have such a powerful effect.
Words are destroyers that cannot be spoken:
my patience has run out
I've already broken my head
something is eating me
they ate all my baldness
sitting in my kidneys (something, someone)
they cut off my oxygen
I can’t stomach (something or someone)
All the juice has been squeezed out of me
spoiled a lot of blood for me
I wanted to sneeze
sick of it
just a knife to the heart
I'm already shaking (shaking)
served my whole neck
fed up
disgusts me
drove me to death
walk in my shoes
It seems to us that we are using capacious, but in fact we are giving our body such clear commands that the body does not even dare not carry them out. At first there was an assumption that destructive words appear in a person’s speech after the onset of the disease. In fact, first a person includes destructive words in his active speech (lays down the program for a specific disease), and only then does the disease arise. And not just any disease, but exactly the one that was declared. And here’s another noteworthy thing: having created a disease, destructive words take root even more in active speech, and not at all in order to report (signal) about the disease. The task of destructive words is completely different - to support the disease, to give it the opportunity to “live and prosper.” This is understandable: organic speech is an independent mental program, and it has a completely justified mission: to support what has been created.
Words are destroyers that should not be spoken because these words and expressions create and maintain diseases:
- bored to the point of nausea, fed up, disgusted with the soul - anorexia nervosa
- shoulder a load of worries, carry your cross, problems up to your neck - osteochondrosis
- something is gnawing at me, poisoning my life, I don’t belong to myself, I’m sick and tired of everything - Cancer
- engage in self-criticism, sarcastically, do not digest something (or someone) - ulcer
- there’s something in the kidneys, urine has hit my head, I have no strength - urological diseases
- cut off oxygen, sneeze on someone - bronchial asthma
- suck the blood, squeeze out the juices, it entered my flesh and blood - blood diseases
- take it to heart, the heart breaks, a blow to the very heart - myocardial infarction
- he doesn’t even itch, I wouldn’t want to be in his skin, thin-skinned - skin diseases and allergies
- rack your brain, risk your head, hit your head again, a complete headache - migraine, weather dependence
- limp on both legs, impassable - chronic seizures, gout
- let off steam, patience has run out, turn up the heat - hypertension
- I’m sad so that life doesn’t seem like honey, sits in the liver - liver and gallbladder diseases, as well as obesity
- the eyes wouldn’t see, it’s scary to look, depending on why, the light is not nice, impenetrable - eye diseases
- I don’t want to hear this, don’t talk, shut up, shut up, it’s noisy, it’s rumbling - hearing loss, deafness
- I’m pounding, shaking, infuriated, disgusted, don’t fool me, my patience has run out - depression
Words are shackles
Another set of words ruins our lives. These words are called words-shackles: by using words-shackles, we limit ourselves in freedom, and in opportunities, and in the right, which by default is given to each of us from birth - to receive the best from life. Fortunately, there are not so many such words, and it won’t take much effort to clear your speech of them. It’s enough just to know that the community of such words consists of 4 main “clans”:
"I can't do it" .
These words clearly indicate, behind them always looms a person’s conviction that his abilities are limited, that he is gray, inconspicuous - “ordinary”. The words of the clan “I won’t succeed” literally force you to stand still - and rot alive. And everything would be fine, but behind the imaginary harmlessness of these words, we do not even notice their insidiousness and do not realize that they force us to commit a mortal sin: after all, doubting ourselves, we show such arrogance that we think of ourselves as something separate from the One Who created us. And we pretend that we are on our own, and God is on our own (and He has nothing to do with who we are); and that the set of unique abilities that we are all endowed with from birth does not oblige us to anything; and that the message addressed to everyone who is human: “You are endowed with talents and are responsible for them” is not addressed to us at all.
Look, here they are, these words, behind which it is very convenient to hide, hide and NOT fulfill your unique life mission: I can’t I can’t I’m not sure whether it won’t work out It’s beyond my capabilities I can’t promise It doesn’t depend on me I won’t take on such responsibility. And the clan’s most insidious word, “I won’t succeed,” is a jewelry-disguised « will try» . Remove the false faith in the result from this word, remove the half-dead enthusiasm from it - and you will certainly see its true face. And you will understand what this word actually conveys. Did you see? That's right, here it is: .
"I'm not worthy" .
Despite their external similarity, the words of this clan have a radically different task (compared to the words of the “I can’t do it”) clan. Admirers of words from the “” clan, as a rule, do not stand still; they truly strive for self-development and understand well that this, in fact, is the meaning of their life. It is these people who have the reputation of being wonderful smart people and jacks of all trades, they are the ones who carry everything and everyone, they take responsibility for everything (and that criticism and prodding, which those riding on their necks do not skimp on, is the norm). And you know, you don’t have to be an experienced psychologist to notice how much fans of the words of the “I’m not worthy” clan are afraid of receiving adequate benefits for themselves. Take a closer look at the words of the clan “I am not worthy” - and you will understand everything: It’s not time yet, I would like to, but... You never know what I want! It’s not harmful to want, Who am I to... I can’t afford it.
"I don't want to, but they force me" .
Oh, well, these are our favorite words! And judging by the frequency of their use, we not only love them, but ecstatically adore them: must need (in the sense of “must”) must (must) requires problems (a very insidious word, and it is perfectly disguised, it does not indicate existing problems, as it may seem, it creates them). How many times a day do we say (and hear from those around us) these words? Can't count! But we don’t just say - we clearly (and without any discrepancies) declare to ourselves and each other: “my life is hopeless.” And what’s remarkable: we have become so close to these shackles that we don’t even try to remove them, at least temporarily, we use them even when we talk about our personal needs that have nothing to do with other people (or circumstances). So we walk around with worried faces and completely forget that we came here solely to enjoy life.
" Impossible " .
The use of this group of words simply takes oxygen away from everything we call. Now there is no need to convince anyone that it is to dreamers that we owe everything that we use with such pleasure: electricity, telephony, television, the Internet, airplanes, cars... continue the list. In general, as they say, blessed are Heaven, which sends us dreamers to convey to us and not let us forget that. Everything (absolutely!) that we recognize as an internal request (I want!) is a direct indication of opportunity. And of course, that all possibilities have a powerful potential for implementation, otherwise the requests simply would not arise. These are the words: Impossible Unlikely Never Cannot be If suddenly (refusal of possibility) If something Could happen like this...(planning obstacles. This phrase is the most reliable way to not only NOT get what you are striving for, but to guarantee yourself what you do not want) What if, God forbid. And the most lethal thing: I have no choice.
Know: words are shackles that significantly reduce your... And this reduces the speed of your movement towards the goal. How to rid your speech of shackled words?
Treatment and disposal of destructive words
We invite you to watch the speech. No, not for your own - this may be impossible without special training. Observe what destructive words are present in the speech of your loved ones. Just avoid “preaching.” Be delicate: people, and especially loved ones, are hurt by teachings and instructions. Just share the information. For example, give this or other articles on this topic a read: Give your loved ones the opportunity to do . And accept independent decisions. And remember: individual speech is something that you absolutely cannot rudely interfere with! Now you know the destructive words by sight, and this means that they are disarmed. Now, if these words begin to slip into your speech, you will instantly notice it and replace “pest” with a neutral (or even productive) synonym. And you will greatly help your health. It’s so simple: speech is purified, and the exposed destructive words gradually disappear from it.
The “Pillory” technique helps a lot. The technique is simple: write out the shackling words from this article and hang this list in a visible place (for example, on the refrigerator - as the most visited place in the house), and let it (the list) stay there for 7-10 days. It’s not worth leaving it any longer, firstly, there’s a lot of honor, and secondly, during this period, what the reception is aimed at will already be formed - a blacklist. The blacklist is a skilled orderly, and it always copes with its task perfectly: it removes all elements from speech
And rest assured: as soon as you discover destructive words in your everyday life, your speech will quickly clear them of them. And the mechanism here is simple and understandable: discovered means exposed. Exposed means disarmed. This means that when destructive words go away, so do illnesses.
Wing words
We are standing on the very threshold! Changes are coming, and it is simply extremely unreasonable to be afraid of them (especially since they will definitely not happen in one day - as, in fact, changes are supposed to happen). We invite you to get down to business. A very pleasant task! The conversation will be about words that, being admitted into active vocabulary, allow a person to obtain evidence that managing one’s own destiny is not a figure of speech, but a completely ordinary practical skill. And this skill absolutely does not allow you to crawl through life, this skill makes you FLY. Words-Wings. There are quite a few of them, but you don’t need a lot at all. Words-wings have such power that it is... impossible to describe. Let’s just designate what is observed in professional practice: people get out of hospital beds, pull themselves out of financial holes, reveal their talents and generally begin to live as every person should: joyfully and excitedly. Here it is, our true resource:
I CAN
I CAN DO IT
I INTEND
Right now, please say out loud: « I want» , and then just aloud: « I intend» , and you will clearly feel that you have made an energetic transition: a thinner energy has been transferred to a much denser one. And this transition is recognized not speculatively, but at the biological level, and this is precisely the secret: the verb “intends” triggers completely certain chemical reactions. And it is precisely these reactions that force you to think productively and act confidently.
NLP - neuro-linguistic programming works!
Compare with this option:
The other day I couldn't speak because nothing came to mind.
Last week, while talking to a potential client, I couldn't say a word because my mind was blank.
Which example do you think is better and more likely to grab people's attention? Of course, the last one.
If in 1987, US President Ronald Reagan, in his speech Speech by R. Reagan in front of the Brandenburg Gate in Berlin O Berlin Wall said something like:
This wall is something um... that shouldn't be there, so anyway, let's get it out of the way quickly.
Such a message would simply be lost in the information flow. Instead, a laconic and succinct challenge was thrown:
Tear down this wall!
Surely you have noticed (if not in yourself, then in someone around you) speech defects of a rhythmic nature. When words are pronounced abruptly, with too many pauses, or vice versa, a person jabbers so that the listener does not have time to understand his thoughts.
To experience the difference in perception, try saying the phrase below. Pronounce each syllable clearly and take short pauses between words. Listen to the sound of your speech:
Today I will go to the gym. Perhaps with a friend.
You will end up with what is called “stepped” speech, in which too much emphasis is placed on individual syllables, and this is a mistake.
Now try to mix each word with the next one so that it looks like one whole passage. Read through without hesitation, but without too much haste:
Today I-went-to-the-gym-with-a-friend.
This option may seem a little careless. In fact, speech with such smooth transitions becomes easier to understand by ear.
As for the pace being too fast, there is a risk of not only being misunderstood, but also of blurting out something unnecessary (for example, in a fit of emotion). Again, recording on a voice recorder will help you track your speech speed.
Try to breathe deeply before each sentence and think that you are being listened to with great interest and that you are in no hurry.
3. Inability to use body language
Many people know the difference between closed and open, but continue to use closed gestures when, on the contrary, they should open.
Movements and facial expressions are characterized as open if they express a friendly attitude and readiness to interact: when the palms are not hidden, the gaze is directed into the eyes of the interlocutor, the feet are turned in his direction, and the like. Closed gestures include crossed arms or legs, glances to the side or at the phone, clenched fists - anything that shows tension or even aggression.
We all have natural tendencies to behave in one way or another depending on the situation. If you disagree with someone, your body automatically reacts: you constrict your pupils, turn your head away, cross your arms. Conversely, when you are understood, listened to and supported, you unconsciously open up.
However, it is not always worth giving non-verbal signals to your interlocutor; often the situation requires the opposite. Try to control your body movements and facial expressions when speaking. Pay attention to the position of your hands and which facial muscles are tense. With practice, you can manage this.
4. Habit of arguing
Expressing disagreement in itself is not a bad thing. As they say, truth is born in dispute. This is how creative ideas appear, an incentive to learn and improve something. All this can be useful and necessary for social interaction, even if you are against many people.
Disagreement can be considered a mistake only when nothing depends or changes on the agreement or disagreement of the interlocutors. That is, if it is an empty dispute that does not bring any results other than irritating opponents. The point of such discussions is not to learn anything new. When you argue that someone is wrong, you are engaging them in a verbal battle for status. And that is why most debaters remain unconvinced - to maintain dignity.
The next time you hear a point of view that is ridiculous or incorrect in your opinion, first find out why the person thinks so, rather than rushing to refute him.
If, even after listening to the arguments, you do not agree with someone’s opinion, do not enter into a useless argument. Instead, move the conversation to another topic where you can come to an understanding. Is there no such area? Then just avoid communicating with this person.
5. Lack of topics to talk about
In an unfamiliar company or in a conversation with people new to you, words can very quickly dry up due to the difficulties in choosing a common topic. Probably, each of us at least once in our lives had to pull out some phrases from ourselves, trying to fill awkward pauses. In order not to find yourself in uncomfortable situations, you can come up with a list of routine topics in advance and use them on occasion.
Imagine the circumstances when you want to start a conversation with an unfamiliar or unfamiliar interlocutor: near the cooler at work, when meeting in a cafe, at a bus stop.
Prepare 10 topics that are suitable for conversation with any person in any situation.
It's easier than it seems. For example, you can always ask about life or work (of course, unobtrusively and delicately), discuss latest news(but it is advisable to avoid politics), ask for advice on some issue. A win-win, although not very interesting, option is talking about the weather.
6. Illiterate speech
We should not forget that a conversation with a literate, educated person is perceived better than with someone who is confused about cases and vocabulary. Improve your speech culture, read more, use dictionaries. But at the same time, it is important to remember a sense of proportion: do not turn into a boring smartass and do not burden your interlocutor with phrases and terms that are too complex for him.
These are the most common mistakes in colloquial speech. Do you have any of them? Maybe you know good way get rid of them? Share your experience in the comments.
😉 Greetings to regular and new readers! Friends, what words cannot be said in order to be successful person? Let's talk about it.
The magic of words
The phrase “A word can heal, but it can also kill” has a literal meaning. Scientists have long proven that words and thoughts have the ability to influence our material world.
It turns out that many words carry a positive or negative charge of energy. They can seriously change both health and even karma.
It is not for nothing that most magical rituals are based on spells and spells. Using words you can create a program that will attract good luck or negative events. In any case, there are words that block the path of luck into your life.
Words that shouldn't be said
Man is endowed by nature with a special gift. He is able to talk. It is with the help of words that he receives important information for himself, shares his feelings, and his life experiences. Therefore, when pronouncing this or that word, you need to understand what energy it contains.
First of all, you need to highlight certain phrases that, like a magnet, attract troubles and misfortunes into life:
- I can’t do this, nothing will work anyway. This is the first phrase of a person who has clearly decided to sign up as a loser. It contains such a powerful charge of negative energy that instantly deprives a person of even the slightest chance.
As soon as it is spoken out loud, it immediately begins its destructive effect. Very similar in meaning to “this is beyond my strength”, “I can’t”, “it won’t work out”. If you want wealth, get rid of these phrases immediately.
- I don't deserve success. Another insidious phrase that not only predicts failure, but also creates a barrier that reliably protects you from success. You can hear “you never know what I want”, “I can’t afford this luxurious thing.” As a rule, they are often said by those who are used to working hard, but value their work little.
“I don’t like it, but I need it.” These phrases are excellent weapons that can destroy all positive thoughts. I don't like this job, but I have to work here.
- This is impossible to achieve. It is human nature to dream. But at the same time, he often perceives dreams as illusions that are completely inaccessible to him. Desire is a powerful motivator to achieve success.
If you utter such phrases constantly, then the opportunity to get what you cherish disappears before your eyes. You block the energy of desire from reaching you.
What to do?
If you decide to achieve success in life and attract good luck, then first of all, try to get rid of verbal garbage.
Verbal garbage is expressions that pre-program an unfavorable outcome of any matter. Then we forget about the words we have already said. But the program has already been launched and is beginning to bear its first fruits.
If a person is chronically haunted by failures, then over time he treats himself as a loser. It might be worth thinking about the meaning of the words and expressions we say every day.
You need to learn to control and... Replace negative thoughts with positive ones, and you will notice how your life has changed. positive side.
In this video additional information what words should not be said
Friends, you now know what words you should not say so as not to scare away your luck. 😉 I wish you to think positively and achieve the success you desire. Bye!
Ecology of life. Children: Is it easy for you to find contact with your child? Is it easy to say kind and encouraging words to him? Or does it happen that it’s difficult to add anything else besides “Well done, good”?
Is it easy for you to find contact with your child? Is it easy to say kind and encouraging words to him?
Or does it happen that it’s difficult to add anything else besides “Well done, good”?
What words must you say to your child?
Parents often share with me during my trainings or consultations:
« You see, no one said a lot of kind words in childhood... This is somehow unusual. And it’s hard for me to come up with something every time. I just don’t know what to say to express my support and faith in the child.».
To make it easier for you, I have compiled for you a list of phrases that you can use when communicating with your child, as well as introduce adults who take part in raising a child to it.
These phrases can and should be said not only to small children, but also to schoolchildren and teenagers. Necessarily!
These are not phrases of praise. These are phrases that help the child feel your support and your faith in him, make him feel that you love him, understand him, accept him. That you feel good next to him. That he's okay.
These are phrases that inspire and support your child. Apply them in daily communication with him. This will help you build a more harmonious relationship with your child!
DESCRIBE WHAT YOU SEE:
- Wow! The room is clean!
- Wow! The bed is made!
- Wow! The books lie flat on the shelf!
- I see you really like to draw.
- What bright colors do you use!
- I see that you tried very hard!
- I see you chose your own clothes!
- I see how neatly you folded your pajamas.
- I see that you cleared the table yourself!
DESCRIBE WHAT YOU FEEL:
- I am so pleased to walk into such a clean room.
- I really love studying and playing with you.
- When I look at the bright balls in your drawing, I feel so happy.
- I'm so glad when you're home.
- I feel like you and I are like one team.
- I'm very pleased when you say that.
- I'm so happy that we have you.
- I am very pleased when you help me.
SHOW FAITH IN YOUR CHILD:
- I trust you.
- I believe in you.
- I respect your decision.
- It's not easy, but you will definitely succeed.
- You can do everything if you just want it.
- You're doing everything right.
- You understand everything correctly.
- How did you do it?
- Teach me how you do it.
- You do it better than me.
- You do it better than me.
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME SPENT TOGETHER:
- I really appreciate the time that you and I spend together.
- I'm looking forward to playing again tomorrow.
- It's very interesting with you.
- I really liked the way we played.
- I'm glad you're home.
- It is very interesting and pleasant to play with you.
PAY ATTENTION TO THE EFFORT AND EFFORTS
- How hard you try!
- I see you put a lot of work into this.
- I see how hard you tried.
- You worked so hard on this and it turned out so great!
- It turns out very cool.
- I can imagine how long it took!
- I can imagine how long you tried to make this happen!
- How much did we have to invent to make this happen!
- Your works have led to good result!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP AND CONTRIBUTION
- Thank you more for what you... (for a specific matter).
- Thank you for what you did.
- Thank you very much for your help.
- Thank you for your understanding.
- This is a very big help for me, thank you.
- You help me so well!
- Thanks to you, I finished everything faster.
- Thanks to you, our place is now so clean.
- Thanks to you, things are no longer scattered on the floor.
This might interest you:
When repeated daily, these positive phrases capable of making you the boss actor your life and your closest friend.
If you really want it, pay attention to your words and what you say. Small changes will allow you to get great pleasure from communicating with yourself. every day.
We are often our own harshest critics. Maybe you make yourself feel guilty when something goes wrong for you. As a result, you lose optimism and faith in your strength.
Can you imagine how your life would change if you started telling yourself more positive phrases?
Try repeating these to yourself positive phrases and you will see how your life will change for the better!
1. I believe in my dreams
Believe in yourself and accept yourself as you are. Don't forget that they are practically limitless. Dreams will come true, you just need to believe in their fulfillment.
By telling yourself that everything will come true, you gain confidence in yourself. This confidence will help you take the first steps towards realizing your plans.
Let no one be able to deprive you of faith in yourself and in the goals that you set for yourself. You can achieve the life you dream of.
Repeating this phrase causes your brain to begin finding the possible in what previously seemed impossible.
2. Every day I give only the best that is in me.
It doesn't matter whether your goal is small or big. Give your best every day, to achieve what you want.
Success does not come suddenly; it is achieved by a road consisting of many small steps.
Remind yourself regularly that only by using all the best sides of your Self, you can confidently move towards your goal.
If you have, don't despair. Focus on this phrase. This will allow you appreciate all the efforts, which had to be made to achieve the desired.
3. I love myself as I am.
When you want to look at yourself in the mirror, pause for a moment. Look into your eyes and say, “I love you.”
Constantly remind yourself of how much you love yourself, and just the way you are, with all your merits and imperfections.
A person is not able to give love to others without first loving himself.
When you learn to accept and love the person who looks back at you in the mirror, your heart will open to love. As a result, you will begin to receive more love from others, and people will begin to truly appreciate you.
4. I am responsible for my own happiness.
Periods of sadness allow you to draw conclusions, learn, find new horizons and become stronger.
Only you yourself able to transform yourself into a positive person satisfied with his life. It is you who is responsible for your own happiness.
Very often we deceive ourselves by starting to look in the reality around us, and not in ourselves. True happiness hides inside each of us.
By repeating this phrase to yourself every day, you will begin to realize that it depends on you whether you will feel happy and satisfied.
Gradually you will feel responsible for your own feelings and emotions.
5. I take full responsibility for my life.
It is very important to realize your responsibility not only for your happiness, but also for your actions.
You should not start new endeavors complaining about circumstances, your life situation or surrounding people. This will only harm yourself.
Only you are fully responsible for your life. You are the author of your reality, which is born as a result of your daily actions and thoughts.
Repeating these positive phrases regularly will help you regain control of your own life.
6. The best is yet to come
This and similar positive phrases will fill your life with inspiration. When you believe that pleasant surprises await you in the future, it becomes easier to cope with daily difficulties.
Believe that tomorrow always holds new opportunities for you. You will see that you will begin to attract good things. And, just as important, you will be fully prepared to accept it.
7. I am grateful to life for every day I live.
Appreciate every day of life, no matter what colors it is painted in. Do not forget that you cannot always influence the course of what is happening. However, you can change your attitude towards him.
Be grateful for every little thing, for every good or bad event that life has given you. Thank life for allowing you to become a part of today.
This vision of life will allow you to experience the amazing thing that life has given you the opportunity to meet a new day alive, healthy and able to do what you love.
The power of our brain to influence our lives is amazing. This is why it is so important to constantly repeat these positive phrases.
Make it a good habit and you will see that life will become more complete, rich and happy.
