Tutta Larsen (real name - Tatyana Anatolyevna Romanenko). She was born on July 5, 1974 in the village. Khanzhenkovo-North of the city of Makeevka, Donetsk region. Russian TV and radio host, journalist, actress, singer, VJ. Founder and host of TUTTA.TV.
Tatyana Romanenko, who became widely known as Tutta Larsen, was born on July 5, 1974 in the village of Khanzhenkovo-Severny, the city of Makeevka, Donetsk region.
Father - Anatoly Lukich Romanenko, radio physicist.
Mother - Elena Mikhailovna Romanenko (nee - Belenkaya), philologist, journalist and screenwriter.
Maternal younger sister - Ekaterina (born 1983).
Uncle - Yuri Belenky, film producer.
Cousin- Mikhail Yuryevich Belenky, screenwriter and actor.
Cousin - Polina Yurievna Belenkaya, actress.
Tatyana got her name in honor of her grandmother.
Her parents separated when Tatyana was only seven years old. Later, the mother remarried. Her stepfather treated her well and actually replaced her father.
As a child, she attended a ballet studio. She graduated from the Makeevka Music School, class of classical guitar.
At school I played in KVN. Studied intensively English language. She loved poetry, was fond of Alexander Sergeevich Pushkin and Federico Garcia Lorca.
In her youth, she was fond of extreme tourism, rock climbing, mountaineering, kayaking, and orienteering. He has a category in rock climbing and two conquered mountain peaks of the Central Caucasus in the Elbrus region - Gumanzhi and Wiatau.
In 1991 she graduated high school with a gold medal. Then she entered the Moscow State University at the Faculty of Journalism.
In 1996 she graduated from Moscow State University with a degree in Economic Journalism and Advertising. During her studies in 1994, she trained in the advertising department of BIZ-Enterprises, where she began her career as a TV presenter.
Just at that time, while working in the BIZ-TV News and Black Friday programs, Tatyana took pseudonym Tutta Larsen- a derivative of the names of the red fox Ludwig Larsen and the young hen Tutta Carlson (characters of the fairy tale "Tutta Carlson the First and Only, Ludwig the Fourteenth and Others" by the Swedish children's writer Jan Olof Ekholm, filmed in the children's two-part film "Redhead, Honest, in Love").
In 1996-1998 she worked as a host of music programs on the Muz-TV channel.
From 1996 to 2002, she was a DJ on the radio "Maximum", talked about alternative music in the author's program "With Pepper for Life".
From September 1998 to July 2008, she worked as a VJ on the MTV Russia channel, interviewed live, hosted music news, charts, talk shows about the problems of modern youth, TV games, and the channel's awards ceremony. He is the legislator of a new style and new genres of music programs: turning an announcer into a VJ, dialogue with the audience, etc. For the first time in Russia, she embodied the concept of a music channel as a window into the world of youth culture.
In 1999, she was awarded a special professional press award "Quality Mark" in the nomination "Best TV presenter".
She was a soloist of the musical groups "Jazzlobster" and "Thaivox", recorded several albums with them as a singer. In 1998, she released her only album, Newbodyforms.
She starred in clips of famous performers - “Sky” by the group “I.F.K.”, “Dorozhnaya” by Anatoly Krupnov, “Se la vie” (“Such is life”) by the group “NAIV”, “The January blizzard is ringing” by the group “Adventures of Electronics”.
Since 1999, she began acting in films, making her debut as herself in the popular youth series Simple Truths.
Tutta Larsen in the series "Simple Truths"
Later she starred in the projects "Destined to become a star." She also took part in the dubbing of the Argentine-Russian television series Tango Three.
Since 2007, she has been working at Mayak radio, paired with Dmitry Glukhovsky, Konstantin Mikhailov, hosted the daytime Show with Tutta Larsen and Konstantin Mikhailov.
In 2008, after working for ten years on MTV Russia, Tutta Larsen switched to Zvezda TV channel, where she released two documentaries about the Great Patriotic War, in which she acted as an author and presenter: "Margarita's List" and "Besleney. The right to live". In 2009, on the same TV channel, she prepared a series of author's programs in a documentary format about family happiness "Ordinary Miracle".
Since 2009, together with Vladimir Averin, she has hosted the programs “The Tutta Larsen and Volodya Averin Show” and “The Central Committee” at Mayak. In 2010, she hosted the evening Tutta Larsen and Gia Saralidze Show on Radio Mayak in Barnaul.
In 2009, she took part in the dubbing of the Russian version of the animated film "Nine", where she became the voice of one of the main characters - the Seventh.
From April 23, 2010 to August 15, 2014 she was one of the hosts of all five seasons of the information and entertainment talk show "Girls" on the channel "Russia 1" along with Olga Shelest, Alla Dovlatova, Lena Perova, Rita Mitrofanova, Marina Golub, Maria Golubkina and Olga Maksimova.
She was the host of the new season of the "Test of Fidelity" program on the Muz-TV channel. In addition, on the family digital channel "My Joy", Larsen hosted the program "Above the Roof" (a televised talk with an acoustic concert).
In 2012, Tutta Larsen became a member of the Russian jury of the Eurovision Song Contest 2012 in Baku.
In 2013, she played the role of a journalist in the melodrama Lucky.
Tutta Larsen in the movie "Lucky"
In 2014, she became the host of the Big Fish. Evening Live" on the radio station "Spring FM", programs "Time of Joy" and " family stories"on the radio" Vera ", the author's program" In the share "on the radio station" Capital FM ", the program" From zero to five "on the TV channel" Mother and Child ".
In May 2015 she launched her own channel TUTTA.TV dedicated to the issues of motherhood, parenting, psychology and relationships.
Since December 2017, together with her daughter Marfa, she began to host the Breakfast with a bang! on the children's TV channel "Carousel".
In 2018, she starred in Oksana Tkach's melodramatic comedy "This is fashion, baby!".
Tutta Larsen. Wife. Love story
Height of Tutta Larsen: 160 centimeters.
Personal life of Tutta Larsen:
She was married three times, counting a civil marriage.
First husband - Maxim Galstyan, guitarist of the I.F.K. and La Scala. The marriage lasted from 1992 to 2000. According to Tutta, Maxim Galstyan cheated on her regularly.
In 2000, she lost her unborn daughter. She was 32 weeks pregnant when she learned that her unborn daughter had been diagnosed with a heart defect that was incompatible with life. Doctors sent her for an artificial termination of pregnancy for medical reasons.
Just during that difficult period, Larsen found out that her husband was cheating on her right at their house. “He had another woman who practically lived on my bed. I came home with an ultrasound scan and took her hair off my pillow. This fact of his infidelity overshadowed all thoughts about what was happening to the child. At some point, the child moved away to background. I was so obsessed with my husband's infidelity, I lived in such hell from it, that I didn’t understand at all that I was losing a child, ”she shared.
The operation to terminate the pregnancy was difficult and gave complications. She recalled: “All the important organs begin to fail in turn: acute pyelonephritis, acute endometritis, acute reactive polyarthritis, such swollen joints. It all hurts, the temperature is 40 every day, chills, I don’t eat anything, I drink almost nothing, plus lactation, which is suppressed by parlodel, an absolutely inadequate psyche, and in addition to antibiotics and tramala, I was on phenazepam, on relanium, on diphenhydramine.
It was at that moment that she came to faith. She was a parishioner of the church of St. Sergius of Radonezh in Krapivniki. Then she began to visit the Temple of the Life-Giving Trinity on Shabolovka.
Second husband (civil marriage) - Zakhar Artemyev, journalist and writer, elder brother of singer Pavel Artemyev from the Roots group. Zakhar repeatedly offered her to marry officially, but she refused. "Unfortunately, by the time these proposals began to be voiced, I absolutely understood: Zakhar is not the man with whom I can live until the end of my days," Tutta explained.
The couple had a son, Luka, on May 20, 2005. Tatyana gave the name to her son in honor of her paternal grandfather. Godfather Luke - his great-uncle Yuri Belenky. Luka studied at an Orthodox private gymnasium at the monastery, graduated from a music school in piano.
Zakhar Artemyev - the second husband of Tutta Larsen
Third husband - Valery Koloskov (born January 10, 1984), singer of the Saratov jazz group Bridge. We got married in 2009. Also got married. Valery adopted Tatiana's son Luka.
Filmography of Tutta Larsen :
1999 - Simple truths - cameo
2002 - Society Chronicles - cameo
2004 - Words and Music "- cameo
2005-2007 - Destined to become a star - cameo
2005 - Young and happy - TV celebrity
2008 - Trap - TV presenter
2011-2012 - Bloody - cameo
2013 - Lucky - journalist
2019 -
Voiced by Tutta Larsen:
2006-2007 - Tango threesome (Tango del último amor) - young female roles
2009 - Rock Wave (Boat That Rocked, The)
2009 - 9 (Nine) (animation)
2014 - Oscar. History of Hollywood (documentary) - comments in Russian
Discography of Tutta Larsen:
1996 - Learn to Swim: Lesson Two (Jazzlobster)
1998 - Newbodyforms (Thaivox band)
1998 - Depeche for Depeche Mode (Thaivox group)
1998 - Absolute (group I.F.K.)
2004 - Alive and unharmed (NAIV group)
2006 - Come on, girls! (adventure electronics group)
Tutta Larsen Marfe's daughters have a bright future in business
Tutta Larsen's daughters have a bright future in business
TV stars in last years as if they had agreed: they call their newborn children in such a strange way that even stand, even fall. They do not think about the euphony of the name, nor about its harmonious combination with the patronymic, nor about whether their offspring with that name will be comfortable going through life. We asked Dr. Boris KHIGIRA, Doctor of Psychology, to comment on this dangerous fashion fad.
Actress Olesya Zheleznyak(“Silver Lily of the Valley”, “My Fair Nanny”) and her husband - Spartak Sumchenko("Soldiers") named their daughter Agafya, and sons - Savely and Prokhor. To the question: “Will the children thank you for such outdated names when they grow up?” - Zheleznyak confidently answers:
They won't say anything! I didn’t say anything to my mother for Olesya. Although the song “Olesya, so the birds scream in the sky”, I confess, I got tired of the years of my youth!
Psychologist Higir believes that the danger lies not only in the outdatedness of these names. Savely is likely to grow up indecisive and very vulnerable, and Agafya- may well turn into a power-hungry young lady with a complex character.
And here Dobrynya Olegovich(that's the son's name Anna Kovalchuk, TV presenter and star of the series "Secrets of the Investigation"), according to Higira, may well have in adult life some psychological problems: frequent mood swings, a tendency to depression, and even a split personality.
- But Anechka found a wonderful name for her daughter - Zlata. The character of the owners of such “gold” is not the easiest, but they are kind, sociable and responsive girls, - the psychologist explains.A fabulous name for the sons of a married couple singers - Drozdova and the performer of the role of Efrosinya in the eponymous series of the channel "Russia" Anastasia Makarova. Their boys are Elisha.
At first we wanted to name our son Tikhon, - Olga Drozdova shared in an interview. - And when they saw how mobile and mischievous our son was, they decided - let him be like a prince.
This name did not cause any bad associations in the doctor of psychological sciences.
Wayward Masha
Khigir was dissatisfied with the choice of names that the hosts of the ProjectorParisHilton made for their children:
On site Garik Martirosyan I would not name a girl after a flower - Jasmine. The immune system of "flower" women is weak. I do not approve of the choice Sergei Svetlakov: Anastasia- uncontrollable, nervous and complex in everyday life. Pro Ivan Urgant and Alexandra Tsekalo and it’s not at all worth saying: name children in honor of relatives (the first is in honor of grandmother Nina, the second - in honor of himself) even for religious reasons is not recommended - you pull all the twists and turns of the fate of another person onto yourself. Here Mikhail Galustyan- well done! Stella- a great name for a girl and is charged with positive energy.
Unsuccessfully, according to Higira, the host of the program “Wait for me” called the twins. Although most Maria Shukshina names Thomas and Fock seem cute. Yes, and the kids justify them: the first, as expected in the interpretation, is bold and resourceful, and the second is alert and reasonable.
Tina Kandelaki also believes that she correctly named her children: daughter - Melania(dark, gloomy, tough), and the son - Leonty(lion). Despite the unpleasant semantics of the girl's name, according to the star mother, she draws well, is reasonable and independent. Yes, and the boy fully lives up to expectations: like a lion, he always stands up for his sister, even if someone just looks askance at her.
To match Kandelaki, a lover of extraordinary names, and Maria Poroshina(“Always say “always”), who named her daughters Polina, Seraphim and Agrafena. did not lag behind Tutta Larsen(according to the passport - Tatiana Romanenko). Her children are named Luke and Martha.- Luke- a very talented and sympathetic person, but in combination with a patronymic Zakharovich can become far from a diligent student, - says Boris Yuryevich. - And all Martha- the most difficult people, but if you find the right approach to them, these girls can turn out to be successful businesswomen with a strong, one might even say, masculine character.
The male mindset, according to Khigir, is also possible in Dian (eldest daughter Amalia&Amalia, stars of the series "The Hunt for Cinderella") and Stephanie(daughter Maria Mashkova).
- Girls with such names at some point may even play boys. But in modern world this is already treated calmly, - the psychologist smiles meaningfully. - By the way, a very strong start and Mash(that's the name of the daughters Anastasia Melnikova, Alexey Maklakov, Xenia Borodina, Natalia Bochkareva and Sergei Selin). They are wayward, they do not recognize authorities. Oddly enough, such a pleasant name Ivan(like son Bones of Khabensky) also has one bad nuance: among its owners there are enough thieves and hooligans. In general, if you raise a child in love and affection, then the most negatively colored name can be easily “saddled”.Valery Koloskov, whose biography we will consider below, is the hero of this article. We will talk about a man, about how he met his famous wife, learn about what is happening now in the relationship of the couple. This article aims to shed light on some of the points that have been hidden from fans who are eager to know more about the life of their idol.
Personal life famous people- This interesting topic for many. This is not about saying anything and making up rumors, but about smart people can learn from the example of others. This is the main essence of the stories of famous people.
Who are we talking about?
This article will focus on Tutte Larsen, a famous TV star and her husband. Tutta Larsen on television is engaged in various shows, works as a presenter on a music channel and surprises everyone with her bright character. This is a woman who can surprise you at any given time. Sometimes she does absolutely unexpected things that delight the audience. The real name of the woman is Tatyana Romanenko. Tatyana abandoned such a stormy activity and devoted herself to her family. However, she is still remembered on TV screens, because she was very bright and memorable. special attention deserves the work of Tutta, because she had many extraordinary ideas, she was often listened to. What are her witty jokes, which could make even the most gloomy guest smile! Tutta Larsen was engaged not only in work in certain projects, but also in their creation. In this case, she also achieved good results. It was one of the projects that introduced the girl to her future husband.
How it was
Valery Koloskov came to conquer Moscow together with his friends, who represented the Bridge musical group. The girl met a young handsome man on a project called "The Secret of Success". Young and unpromoted creative teams could perform at this show. Tutta Larsen was the host of the show, and Valery was in the musical group- its member.
Naturally, many knew about Tutt. People took advantage of the fact that they could sneak onto the set to ask the girl for an autograph. Many men stared at the charming beauty, but the girl herself remained cold to her boyfriends. Ambitious Valery Koloskov was no exception, who almost at first sight fell in love with Larsen's playful delivery style. However, the guy was clearly smarter than his competitors. He did not want to openly show his feelings, to show admiration for the girl. Perhaps it was this detachment that attracted the attention of the beauty, who was sure that she could win any heart.
Girl's reaction
The future husband of Tutta Larsen Valery Koloskov in no way tried to rush things. At this time, Tatyana had already spotted a pretty guy, but she was not going to take any special steps. Her flirting and coquetry was already enough, so she decided to just ignore the next cute young man. However, this is not the only thing. At the time of meeting Valery Koloskov, the woman had a son and raised him herself. She was well aware that at work she could limit herself to light flirting, but in the future she needed a serious strong relationship, as a result of which a family was created.
Development of events
Time passed, and mutual interest in each other only grew, despite the fact that neither of them took any special steps towards rapprochement. Various reasons have already ceased to stop the girl, only two main ones remained. First, she still thought about the fact that she did not need an affair. Secondly, I thought that, most likely, this would only be an affair, because they had a 10-year age difference with Valery. It all escalated the situation a bit. At this time, Valery was thinking about how to conquer the girl, but he was afraid to take bold steps so as not to receive a decisive refusal. When there was a break between filming, the guy went home and shared with his family that he liked the popular TV presenter. Despite the fact that the guy himself believed that the girl was unlikely to pay attention to him, in the family he met a different view of the situation. After listening to Valery, the father said that it is necessary to act if you really like a person. No one says that you need to stun her with your feelings, but at least it’s worth talking about them.
Confession
The words of his father made a certain impression on the guy. He thought that it was really not worth losing such a chance of fate, because perhaps Tutta also had some sympathy for him. Returning from home, he began to show his feelings, but not in public, but when he was alone with Tutta. Thus began the famous chemistry between the lovers.
First steps hand in hand
The film crew simply could not help but notice that something was happening between the young people. There was definitely a spark between them, and everyone saw it. However, the girl took the first decisive step. It was a simple informal invitation to take a walk together. The girl decided to immediately show how everything is, and invited the guy for a walk in the park with her son. It was an ordinary day off, and Valery Koloskov did not expect such attention from the TV star. He, of course, agreed. It was this simple day in the park that became the beginning of their story. After the walk, the girl invited the man to dine, and he readily agreed. We can say that, starting from that moment, the couple in love was no longer separated for a minute. Tutta and Valery decided to no longer hide their sincere feelings, so they publicly announced their relationship. After a short period of time, Valery offered this breathtaking beauty a hand and a heart.
Wedding
Tutta Larsen and Valery Koloskov got married in 2009. At this point, Tutta was a famous TV presenter, for whom all roads are open. Valery was an ordinary student and musician who dreamed of a career. However, all these formalities did not interfere with the happiness of the lovers. After marriage, the couple had two children - a boy and a girl. It was unexpected for the public to see Tutta in a new image. From a bright, eccentric girl, she turned into a calm and confident wife and mother.
Interestingly, the couple chose the names of their children for a reason. Only the names of Orthodox saints were taken into account. The eldest son of Tutta is called Luka. She named the children from her second marriage, with Valery, Ivan and Martha. Valery Koloskov, Larsen's husband, fully supports such views on life.
Vanya's birth
The third child was born in 2015, July 1. Interestingly, the couple gave birth at home, because the contractions began, and it was necessary to do something. At that time, a specially invited midwife was present at home, who was supposed to accompany the girl to the hospital and help her in various little things. Thanks to her, the delivery was successful. Valery Koloskov, whose biography we are considering, took birth with his wife. In an interview, the man joked that he did not have time to move away from the shock that his wife was giving birth at home, when he immediately heard the crying of the child. Tutta said more than once that she was very grateful to her husband for being next to her. Indeed, not every man is able to attend childbirth. Valery was with his beloved all the time, holding her hand and praying that everything went well. As a result, a healthy strong boy appeared in the world, who was named Ivan.
Valery Koloskov, whose age speaks of his youth and, perhaps, naivety, nevertheless courageously withstood this test and showed his wife that he was a reliable support for the family.
Family
Today Valery is engaged in business. Music is in the past, but he does not regret it at all. The man is engaged in the opening of shopping centers and is proud of his work. Tutta Larsen is still busy in show business. However, now she hosts completely different shows that she liked before. It is much more interesting for a popular mother to talk about raising children, pregnancy, childbirth, etc. The family lives happily and calmly. There are no scandals or anything like that. I must say that children are brought up according to Orthodox canons. No one even thought that the eccentric Tutta would raise her children like that. The older boy, by the way, is studying at an Orthodox gymnasium.
Summing up the article, it is worth saying that Valery Koloskov - Tutta's husband - has shown himself over the years as a real man. He did not make scandals due to the fact that Tatyana is a public figure, did not provoke family quarrels and dramas. This is probably one of the best outcomes of public relations. It would be much better if every famous couple left their ambitions behind for the sake of joint happiness, for the sake of a loved one, for the sake of a common goal.
In the summer, the appetite should decrease, right? Heat, thirst, you shouldn't want to eat, right? Well, then why do I buy half a kilo of goat cheese at Danilovsky, huh?! And I lust at the thought that now I’ll kill him at night looking with Uzbek tomatoes! What to do?
My children love the fairy tale New Year's adventures of Masha and Vitya. Watch it several times a week. I have loved her very much since my childhood. And now I'm watching it with Martha and Vanya and for the first time I notice a machine dress. It's so short that it doesn't really cover anything. Throughout the film, Masha specifically “shines” with cowards. And it doesn't matter at all. It meant nothing to child viewers in the 70s and 80s and is not fixed in any way by my children today. But I see it and understand it: this fairy tale would not have had a chance to hit the big screen in 2019. 80% of the clips that we loved so much during the heyday of MTV today would be recognized as either pornography, or extremism, or something else. Such news comes from everywhere, against which the sculpture from my yesterday's post looks like a symbol of purity and chastity. In Alabama and several other US states, they will put people in jail for 99 years for abortions. At the same time, the world is flourishing surrogacy. The psychopath Sterligov (he is not Orthodox, do not be confused!) on the air of one TV channel calls for beating wives, and Angelina Jolie's 13-year-old daughter drinks male hormones and is preparing for a sex change. The pendulum swung to absolutely wild amplitudes. Our point of view has changed. We see one thing big and clear and don't focus on the other at all. And it seems to me that at such a time, it is more important than ever to understand: who and what controls your vision. How do you form your attitude to what is happening in the world? What rules do you live by? What do you believe? What are your meanings? Because outside of all this hell there are eternal values, there are unchanging and essential foundations of being for every person. I personally hold on to them and only this does not let me go crazy. And to see miracles and goodness in a fairy tale, and not cowards machines.
We handed over a birth certificate to the MFC, we will soon receive a passport. The boy tenses up: with a passport, it’s already criminal liability, if anything. I say: wow, take out the trash on time, otherwise I’ll complain to the district police officer! (Shutka). And also, I say, you can get married. Answers: - at 14?! Are we in the Middle Ages? Not before 20, I think. At this age, a person becomes already more experienced! I say: you can also work officially from the age of 14. Sighs. - Have to. But by whom - I have not yet decided. Share where your teenagers earn extra money?
1 year ago
And the well-known journalist, TV presenter, creator of the TUTTA.TV channel and mother of three children told Ksenia Wagner why she is against pain relief during childbirth, whether it is worth taking her husband to the maternity hospital and why myths about breastfeeding are dangerous.
- In many interviews you said: "I regret that I did not start giving birth earlier." Although you gave birth to your first child at the age of 31, it is not too late by modern standards.
I just understand that I can handle the fate of a mother of many children. If I had started earlier, perhaps there would have been more children, I would have had more time. But, on the other hand, everything comes when a person is ready for it. I couldn't start earlier because I wasn't mature enough. I can’t say that I am fully mature now, but I have matured enough to realize the importance of motherhood in a woman’s life in general and specifically in my life. And the Lord began to send me children.
- You gave birth to Luka when you were 31, Vanya - 41. What is the difference between the first and third experiences at ten years old?
The difference is not in years, but in the fact that this is the third child. I know mothers who manage to mature and calm down even “at first”. But, as a rule, the first child is such a testing ground, an experimental site for experiments that are far from always necessary, and sometimes unsafe. With your third child, you are a billion times calmer and more confident.
- What didn’t you do with Vanya and what did you do with Luka?
I don’t do anything with Vanya at all: I don’t wash Vanya with soap, I don’t treat him with medicines, I don’t put him in a separate bed at night.
What about Marfa?
Martha is a child, a little deprived of maternal attention. She got the least of me in the first year of her life: she lived on expressed milk and on a bottle - because I worked at Mayak 5 days a week, 3 hours on air plus an hour and a half there and back.
- You don't regret it?
I'm sorry, but it was necessary. There is no point in regretting what you could not change. Then it was the only way to earn money and support the family.
Has this affected your relationship?
No, it didn’t affect the relationship, but she gave up breastfeeding at 11 months, and it was sad: I wanted to feed her longer. In general, we are lucky that we have an average girl. There is such a story as middle child syndrome, who gets the least attention. Martha has a successful character in this sense - she is flexible and independent. Sometimes I suddenly realize that I didn’t even say goodnight to her - either I was engaged in a small one, or I did my homework with Luka. And at that time she ate supper herself, washed herself and went to bed herself. I almost warmed up my own milk!
- With your third child, did you go on a full-fledged decree?
Yes, Vanya got me the most. There were some works, but they still revolved around Vanya and his regime. Dad was with us all the time. It so happened that he also had a flexible schedule during this period. The three of us stuck to each other and were together everywhere. Older children communicated with the nanny more: kindergarten, school. And Vanya received in full.
- Are there 2-3 rules that you followed every pregnancy?
Anyone who said something bad or upsetting to me, I sent to the garden.
My husband and I laughed that I was like an elephant - I eat, sleep and trample to death everyone who infuriates me. It is important for a pregnant woman to establish a filter between herself and the world around her - and not let negativity and doubt pass through it. You need to tune in that everything will be fine with you and cut off any irritants for a while (even if they are close relatives). Another rule is to choose a doctor who prescribes a minimum of examinations.
The less they interfere with you, the better. If there are controversial indicators in the analyzes, you should always look for a second opinion, because pregnancy is amazing state and what happens in the body today can change dramatically tomorrow. At some point, my iron dropped and there were few platelets. I was prescribed drugs, but I did not take them. And a week later I came to the doctor and heard: “Oh-oh-oh, stop, you have an excess of iron, now it is more than normal.” But I didn’t do anything for this, my body itself “resolved” the situation in this way. Yes, of course, there are situations that are dangerous to health during pregnancy, but they, as a rule, make themselves felt not only with blood tests. Feeling unwell, some kind of discharge, pressure, etc. - of course, all this is a reason to see a doctor. But in 90% of cases everything goes fine, and I am very afraid of doctors who treat women with pregnancy. Because this is the natural state for which a woman is born.
— How did you choose a doctor? As far as I know, you have a completely different experience of childbirth.
Yes, but with the last two children, I was observed by the same doctors, gave birth with the same midwife. And I have three great gynecologists that I can 100% recommend. This is Alexandra Viktorovna Borisova, who works at the Happy Family clinic. And also Galina Vladimirovna Ovsyannikova and Tamara Sadovaya, founder of the Center for Traditional Obstetrics. I also recently met Tatyana Normantovich, she heads the PMC. I think I would also contact her. And there is also a brilliant person named Yulia Dmitrievna Vuchenovich, who heads the 68th maternity hospital.
- And how did they win you over?
All of them just act on the principle of minimal interference in female nature, they don’t force you to drink a bunch of drugs and take a billion tests, but at the same time they carefully monitor your well-being. And set up for natural childbirth. If there are no contraindications and problems, these are the people who allow a woman to do everything as nature intended. And this is very important in the first place for the child. The way we carry and give birth to children affects their entire subsequent life: both physical and mental health, starting with resistance to infectious diseases and ending with the ability to find their place in society.
- Tell me how it is connected?
Michel Auden, one of the main theorists of natural parenting, writes beautifully about this. During natural childbirth the child receives not only mother's antibodies and immunity, but also the experience of fighting for himself, the experience of defending his place in the world. Plus, the mother gives him a giant hormonal charge. Hormones are what regulates us in emotional and social realities. Adrenaline, endorphin, oxytocin - all of them are produced in the body in certain situations, precisely so that we resolve these situations in an adequate way. If a person's hormonal metabolism is disturbed - and it is disturbed when the child does not go through all the stages of childbirth normally - he begins to have various problems. For example, he is drawn to crazy sports in order to produce additional adrenaline. Or he needs alcohol to produce endorphins, because his own brain does not produce enough of it. This is all very serious, but few people think about it. There is a good documentary on 24 Doc called In the Womb. This is, perhaps, the first documentary about how a person is affected, precisely from the point of view of psychotherapy, and not just physical biology, the way he was carried and given birth.
- Have you given birth to children without anesthesia?
No anesthesia, no intervention, no stimulation.
- What are your arguments in favor of refusing anesthesia?
Again, my argument is that anesthesia is external. Nature did not invent it. A woman at the time of childbirth produces natural anesthetics, childbirth should not be painless. Why is this pain necessary? I went to prenatal courses at the CTA (and for a couple: for a man and a woman who are set for partner childbirth). There was a very strong session called “Birth Through the Eyes of a Child”, where we were told what a child goes through during the birth process. When you hear all this, you stop feeling sorry for yourself and afraid of pain. Because the child is much more difficult, he gets many times more pain and stress. The woman is anesthetized, but the baby is not. But childbirth is a tandem, the joint work of mother and baby. At that moment, when the mother passes out for anesthesia, the baby is left alone and works for two. I think this is at least not fair, but at the most dangerous. Of course, there are women who have an inadequate pain threshold, there are situations in which anesthesia is indispensable. God forbid, emergency caesarean, etc. But if there is a normal birth process, it is better to do without anesthesia.
What helped you endure this pain? In addition to knowing that you are working not only for yourself, but also for the child.
Modern psychologists offer several different practices that help a woman deal with the pain of childbirth. There is even such a thing as “Hypnobirth”, when a woman plunges into some kind of trance state. Basically, this is how it should be.
The main task of a woman during childbirth is to turn off her neocortex, i.e. civilized later superstructure of the brain. And leave only the limbic system, which functions like all mammals. Leave instincts, nature. Three sacred "T" of natural childbirth - warm, quiet, dark.
This is how all mammals give birth: they go into the bushes, into the darkness, into silence. We are not much different in this respect. A woman needs to immerse herself in childbirth, as in warm bath. With Martha, breathing helped me a lot. Plus I did tai chi, there is interesting moments. For example, when you are in pain, instead of tensing up and moving on, you breathe and relax. And once you relax, it turns out that you can move on. The body begins to let you go further: you stretch deeper and bend down lower. This also works in childbirth: breathing techniques alternating with relaxation.
And with Vanya, psychologist Aleksey Ivanov taught me this technique: breathe, try to relax and at the same time visualize the main point where it hurts you, and as if you breathe into it, exhale all your air and energy there, at the same time imagining how this place bathed in blinding white light, so bright it hurts to look at. I don’t know, maybe someone will have a lilac spark or a red bunny. The essence is not in the image itself, but in its action. When you focus on a painful point and relax in that place, the process speeds up amazingly. At some point, I felt Vanya just “rolling” down from me.
Plus, various massage techniques help against pain. There are acupuncture points that can be massaged. There are oils that can be inhaled, and they also have a slight anesthetic effect. There are even red wine cocktails that help a woman shift her focus from pain to the process itself. But in general, when you feel working together with a baby, when you understand what he is doing now and how to behave in order to help him, it is such a miracle that you basically forget about pain. It's a miracle, but the work is hard physical work.
Did you have any mantra? For example, I had a mantra at the first and second births that a million women do this and I can.
I certainly had the thought that the Lord created me in order for me to do this. A million women have done it before me, and a million will do it after me, I am no different from them. Prayers helped me. I prayed Mother of God, there is an akathist, there is an icon, a special assistant in childbirth. With Martha, during the time that we were driving to the maternity hospital, I managed to read this akathist aloud with my husband in its entirety. Praying to the Mother of God or simply saying: “Lord, have mercy” was the most important psychological support for me, despite all the breathing and other practices. You still understand that everything is God's will.
- Your births were also different: you gave birth to Luka yourself, Marfa and Vanya with your husband. What experience was the most comfortable for you, what are the arguments in favor of staying with your husband? What is important to remember about this?
I want to say that partner childbirth is absolutely not a must. They are not suitable for all couples, not all women need them, and certainly not all men. But if a couple decides that they need it, then they definitely go to childbirth preparation courses.
And the man, having received all the information, finally decides whether he is ready for this or not. There are different options: you can sit in the next room, pray and wait, you can stand at the head of the bed and hold her hand, or, like one of my friends, you can “stand with a camera at the entrance and film how your fifth child is born.” He shoots all his children on camera, does not see any physiology in this, for him it is a miracle every time. His wife was embarrassed at first, but relaxed on the fifth run.
It was important to me that our dad was present at the birth, but it was even more important to him. He said: “I want. Since we made this child together, we carried it together, we will meet him together.” I didn't need his direct involvement. There are women who want to be held by the hand, massaged, persuaded, supported. And I am a cat: I need everyone to leave me behind. But, of course, it's cool that he was the first person to take a child in his arms, he cut the umbilical cord, poured tea and dragged me sandwiches to bed. It was important to feel that we were all together. From my point of view, it is wrong when a woman works in childbirth, and a man thumps with friends, “washes”. Or running around the shops, buying diapers. All this can wait on the great day of the birth of the child. A man may not go to the maternity hospital, but be with all his heart and soul, participate in the process at least by phone, somehow be in touch with his wife. My husband and I experienced partner childbirth very close. And, I think, helped him become a real father. Washing, taking out the poop, bathing, swaddling, smearing the navel with hydrogen peroxide, cutting the child's nails - all this is absolutely normal for him.
I believe that in my mother's first aid kit there must be hydrogen peroxide and alcohol tincture of calendula - it heals the navel much better than brilliant green, under which you can not see festering. There must be Purelan, it contains natural lanolin - this is an excellent remedy for cracked nipples. Cream Traumeel "from bruises" copes with everything: our dad is a karateka, he walks all blue, with cracks in the rib and dislocated fingers, and we are saved only by Traumeel. With Vanya, I had lactostasis three times (and already in mature lactation - I don’t know what it was connected with, maybe with stress or problems with posture). Traumel was a great help. The coolest scissors for children's nails - Pigeon: tiny, safe, but sharp enough. I still cut Luke's nails with them.
Often they advise a cream with zinc under a diaper, such as Sudocrem - it really works well, relieves redness, heals small scratches, but you need to be careful with it, because zinc is a strong active substance. And without a dramatic need, it is better not to use it.
What diapers do you use for babies?
Huggies, I am the brand ambassador. I don’t like Japanese ones, they leak here. Huggies, by the way, also have cool wet wipes that can be flushed down the toilet - they are 80% water and only 20% paper. We conducted an experiment: beans sprout in these napkins.
— What cosmetic must-haves did you have during pregnancy?
I love the Weleda brand, have used their perineum oil every pregnancy and have not had any breakouts. I also really like their massage oils with arnica, lavender, I love the lavender shower gel. And Skin Food cream - for all occasions. From recent discoveries - Bio-Oil oil. In general, I do not have stretch marks, but the skin still loses its tone. This oil gives a pronounced softening effect, and at the same time it is not very greasy, it is quickly absorbed.
- Did you make masks for your face, did you go to a beautician?
I have an amazing beautician who I have been going to for 10 years. Her name is Gayane, and she has a daughter Anna, who also became a beautician, they have a family tandem. They make their own cosmetics according to old grandmother's recipes, it's amazing. Anna has a clinic, Gayane has an office. Anna uses more modern technologies. Their cosmetics is called "Nazelie". I only go to Gayana for cleanings and massages, but soon I will start going to Anna and for all sorts of minimally invasive procedures. From other products, I found an excellent lip balm and an awesome Malin + Goetz deodorant with eucalyptus in Cosmotheca.
- Let's move on to the topic of breastfeeding, it is now one of the most acute in various "mom" groups.
We at TUTTA.TV will be doing an episode about breastfeeding myths, because we are tired of facing the monstrous nasty things that talk about breastfeeding.
— What are the three most poisonous myths, from your point of view?
The child needs to be fed up to a year, after a year there is nothing in the milk. The child needs to be fed according to the regime, otherwise he will have unhealthy eating behavior, and he will grow up to be a neurasthenic. Boys should not be breastfed after six months because female hormones are transferred to them and they can become homosexual. And my favorite story - as soon as the first teeth appear, stop feeding, breast milk causes caries.
Where do you think these myths come from?
From the Soviet past, when the task of medicine and pediatrics was to quickly return a woman to society, to the ranks. So that she handed over the child to a nursery and went to work. Therefore, for 70 years, the mechanisms of parenthood have been destroyed at the state level, by state policy. Hence the feeding according to the regimen, “do not carry on the handles - you will spoil”, the lack of joint sleep and other crimes against childhood.
- And how many children did you feed?
I fed Luka for 1 year and 3 months, Martha left herself at 11 months old, I still feed Vanka, I want up to two. Vanya July, we are going to the sea for a month and a half, when he will be exactly two years old. I decided that it was not advisable to stop breastfeeding at sea, where you often encounter rotoviruses. When the baby is on the chest, it is easier to bear. Therefore, I plan to tie in September. But these plans are very ephemeral, because of all my children, Vanya is the most demanding, the most partial.
What are the three breastfeeding rules you follow? Still, this is a process that imposes certain restrictions on my mother's life.
On the contrary, it is a process that makes mother's life easier.
- This is if you are calm about feeding in public places.
How else can this be treated?
Some are shy, some are uncomfortable.
I am against public breastfeeding. There are many cafes in Moscow with a room for Mother and Child, in the park, in any square you can sit on a bench and cover yourself with a stole. These are women's cockroaches: “I am afraid to feed the child in public, I run home from the street to feed him. I take bottled milk. Sling and breasts in the first six months - a guarantee of your maternal freedom. The child is calm when he is on his mother, and at this moment the mother can go to her friends and go to a restaurant. We had an Elleville sling. I had two ring slings and two scarves, one softer and one tighter for an older child. The same brand has awesome slingo jackets. Wildly warm, comfortable, with a special hood for the baby, which then transforms into an ordinary winter jacket. And a separate advantage - giant pockets. Everything fits in them: cookies, a bottle of water, gloves, keys, a credit card, a mobile phone, a pack of napkins.
- How did you finish the GW with Luka? For many, this is very difficult.
Somehow by itself. To be honest, I hurried with Luka, although he was ready. But I'm tired. I had to go to work, I really wanted to quit. Luka took a bottle, but Vanya does not recognize a pacifier or a bottle. Luka could drink kefir or some liquid porridge at night from a bottle a year, but Vanya could not. Onion and water from a bottle drank well. We were at the dacha, I was poisoned by something. I didn't feed for three days because it was dangerous. And these three days he did not even notice. He then already slept separately in his bed.
- About co-sleeping - some psychologists believe that after a year it is not useful, because the child “controls” the mother nearby all the time, does not fall into deep sleep, and this is harmful to the brain. What do you think?
There are psychologists who will say otherwise.
I believe co-sleeping goes hand in hand with breastfeeding. If you have finished feeding, try shifting the baby. I put Luka aside at a year and three, and he came to our bed until the age of 7-8, and Martha moved to her own room at the age of three, and we never saw her again.
Rarely did she ask, "Can I sleep with you?" When there was no Vanya, we still let her in, but now that's all. But she doesn’t need it - she doesn’t have any problems, fears, nothing. All the same, there is a certain natural border when it is time for a child to break away. And, as a rule, children at this moment begin to show interest in their own place. I think it all depends on the individual child. I really love William and Martha Sears - American psychologists, educators and pediatricians. They are the golden mean between notorious natural scientists and modern traditional medicine. I love their advice on breastfeeding, co-sleeping, moving the baby out of the crib, and complementary foods.
What products do you not have at home? What do you not give to children and do not eat yourself? What are yours ground rules nutrition?
We don't eat fast food. There are practically no chips, cakes, eclairs, pastries in the house.
What do you give children for breakfast?
Everyone is different. Vanka always has porridge with fruit for breakfast: oatmeal, rice, semolina, multi-cereal porridge. For dinner - buckwheat. Vanya does not eat any sugar yet, I try to delay this moment as much as possible. Luka generally started eating sweets and sugar after three years. Martha, of course, earlier, because there is an older brother. Children have a very delicate enzymatic system, and sugar is a serious challenge to the pancreas. And, then, it is one of the most useless products. We, for example, Luka and Martha, when they already got acquainted with sugar, tried to give fructose or dextrose instead.
- Do you cook different things for all the children?
I cook Vanya's porridge, but Vanya gets up later than everyone else. He turned out to be our little owlet: he goes to bed with us around 11, and wakes up at 10, which is more than fine with me. With Vanya, I always get enough sleep, except for periods when his teeth are climbing. And dad prepares breakfast for the elders. Luka eats eggs, Martha doesn't. Luka eats pancakes with turkey (we buy ready-made pancakes from the farmhouse), and Marfa eats pancakes with honey. Luka started drinking cocoa: he didn’t drink milk, but he drinks cocoa. Luka is generally small-minded, it is difficult to force him to have breakfast.
Luka is already 11 years old. Over the past few years, the fashion for early development has been gaining momentum. Children are actively led to different circles. What do you think about it?
I take it very badly. I talked with a huge number of psychologists, teachers whom I trust. A child under the age of 12 must have at least two hours of free play per day and two hours per day outdoors. This is the minimum, but four is better. Free play is when a child is left to himself, plays with his toys or with other children without the participation of adults at all. Parents believe that for a child a walk is to walk from the door of the house to the car, from the car to the school, from the school to the music school and back. It's horrible.
Parents do not understand that the body of a small person has a huge number of tasks up to 7 years: cognitive, physiological, social, neuropsychiatric. This is madness. For 7 years, a person must go through evolution.
And now, for example, his hemisphere is developing, which is responsible for motor activity, and his mother at this moment is English, drawing. The child's brain freezes: having not completed the function that he began to master, he tries to master a new one, which now he does not really need. As a result, both functions fail. Of course, the child can offer something. Martha at the age of two knew the full alphabet, and in a scatter. It was my favorite attraction. By the age of three, she had safely forgotten him. Luka went in a year and two, Marfa - in a year and a month, and Vanya - in a year and four. And he sat down very late, crawled late. But from the age of eleven, he says “woman”, “mother”, “give”, “on”. And he had such a finger grip that he could collect cereals at 10 months. Obviously, his brain did not develop symmetrically at that moment, but he does not have to develop symmetrically. A healthy child, eats normally, sleeps normally, there are no pathologies. You can, of course, accelerate development with massages, developmental exercises, gymnastics, but it’s not a fact that it won’t come out sideways.
- Don't you think that often parents who take care of children as projects simply realize their own ambitions? So in many cases behave those who have no other business than children.
The child project is scary. Such parents run the risk of raising a person with a broken psyche, lack of initiative and, God forbid, some kind of nervous pathologies. Often this is all a consequence of early development.
Often. There is an amazing child psychologist-teacher Maryana Mikhailovna Bezrukikh, she heads the Institute of Developmental Physiology. She rings all the bells at conferences, at interviews, when communicating with the press. She says, "Step away from the kids with your early development you break them. Let them develop naturally. It is impossible to lay bricks on a weak foundation, it will simply break. This base must be solidified." The child has a physiology. Martha went to school with me from the age of 6, but we didn’t know until the last, until August, whether we were giving her away or not. Because socially, emotionally and intellectually she was ready, but physiologically she was not. She physiologically could not withstand the load and not sit in one place for 45 minutes. Do you know what test is? The child over the head should take his ear at a right angle. If a hand reaches to the ear, it means that he is ready, ripened. He will be able to hold a pencil in his hand, he will be able to write.
— I can't help but ask you about the nanny. In our country, there are many propagandists of an exclusively "mother's" upbringing. In short: “Why do you need a nanny, you don’t work?” and "Nanny is a priori evil, criminals, women who cannot be trusted." How do you feel about the function of a nanny in the family, how did you choose your own, and what helped you make the right choice?
A friend brought me a nanny by the hand. I visited her with Luka. She sheltered us in her luxurious estate outside the city. Once she left for the city, and when she returned, she took a fragile woman out of the car by the hand and said: “Tuttik, this is your new nanny.” It was our Sveta, she worked as a nanny for our friends and just at that moment she got free and was looking for a job. It was 11 years ago. Sveta is raising her third child with us. And she is more of a nanny to me personally than to my children. Remember, in the movie "Sex in big city Charlotte took the babysitter, who had huge breasts, and all the men were staring at her. At some children's party, her friends say to her: “Don't you see what's happening?” And the nanny without a bra runs around the park, and all the men drop saliva. Charlotte looks at this and says: “I didn’t notice this before, my God, how can I be. I can't lose this babysitter." For 11 years, Sveta has become a member of the family. Of course, there are some rough edges: here she did not share something with my mother, here with her husband, here with her mother-in-law. And every time I think: “God, I can’t lose this nanny, what should I do.”
- How do you generally feel about the presence of a nanny in the family?
Even if a woman realizes herself only in motherhood, she has the right to free time. Up to a year, it is probably desirable that the mother be as close as possible to the baby, if there is such an opportunity, but it’s good if there is a person in the wings. Who can be with the baby while you take a bath. Not to mention that maybe you want to do fitness or shop or go to a psychoanalyst or go for a massage. It's good when there are grandmothers or a freelance husband. It’s better when you have a nanny on hand than when you are already green, hate yourself, hate the child, climb the wall from lack of sleep, fatigue and what you see in the mirror.
I can’t imagine what I would do if I didn’t have Sveta, how I would choose a nanny for my children. Most likely, I would have resorted to word of mouth, to the experience of acquaintances, I would have taken someone's nanny by inheritance than just looking for an agency.
Unfortunately, I heard a lot of sad stories about when a person with all the papers, with guarantees from the agency, but in the end turns out to be an alcoholic or simply an incompetent person. It’s good if there are grandmothers, although grandmothers carry another danger: they cannot be stopped.
- A situation often occurs with grandmothers, which psychotherapists call the “effect of a chick thrown out of the nest”: when a big mother (grandmother) throws out her grown chick (mother) and begins to take care of the new one (grandchild) as if she were her own child. Because in her mind, her daughter is also still a child, and she cannot know some things as well as a big mother. And at the same time, grandmothers want the best, no one wants to purposefully humiliate you, offend you. Have you experienced this? What advice would you give to those who are experiencing this?
Here there is a very big temptation on the part of the mother - to blame everything on the grandmother. When you don't take responsibility, another adult takes it. If you have finally decided that you yourself want to raise your child, you need to move the grandmother away: dose or isolate, in a word, build boundaries. But at the same time, not in words demonstrating their "adulthood", but actually doing everything on their own. In fact, if the family has a sane dad, and the husband and wife have normal relations, the "thrown chick" syndrome is almost impossible.
“Now, unfortunately, many are faced with a missed pregnancy or cannot get pregnant for a long time. I know that you too had this painful experience. What would you, as a person who has successfully overcome this period, as a mother of three children, advise those who are faced with this?
- Each person has his own measure and his own strength, according to which this or that test is given to him. Came out very good book in the publishing house "Nikeya" "Word of consolation. How to deal with the death of a child. The first thing a woman experiences in such a situation is a feeling of great loneliness and guilt. It seems to you that you are the only one in the world, the whole world is having fun, everyone is fine, but for some reason you were thrown out of reality and it is not clear what you did wrong, that everything is fine with everyone, but you don’t. At this point, it is very important to get support and understand that you are not alone. Having lost a child and talking about it publicly, I was shocked at how many women found themselves in similar situations - one in three women lost a child in one way or another. This happens very often, and you are not alone in this, it happens, but after that life goes on. It is also very important to burn out. A wonderful psychologist, who then saved me, said: “Grief must be mourned. You have to focus on it." In Russia, it is not customary to suffer and grieve, but one must suffer oneself - for someone it will take a month, for someone a year. But there is a certain moment in which you must plunge completely in order to get out of this. Again, you need to look for help: if relatives do not help, you need to go to a priest, to a psychotherapist, you need to read books, look for like-minded people, comrades-in-arms in misfortune. Now there is a wonderful group “The Heart is Open” on Facebook, a public of mothers who have experienced the loss of a child. You may not get relief, but you will get some consolation by sharing it into some parts with other people. And, of course, we must believe that everything will be.
- Your happy pregnancy came through ...?
- Five years. In general, in our family amazing story. A year after I gave birth to Luka, my sister lost her child in exactly the same way in childbirth. But now she has two children, she is an absolutely happy mother and wife.
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— Tell us about TUTTA.TV. How did you come to this project after MTV, it would seem, a completely different professional culture? What does it mean to you, what are your goals and plans?
- After MTV, I had a bunch of different side jobs that were not very noticed by the audience on television and radio.
— But most people still associate you with MTV.
Yes, but time is running out. I grow up, my viewer grows up. It is not surprising that if earlier we were all interested in youth subculture and music, now we are interested in motherhood, childhood, psychology, relationships, spiritual quests, professional realization. When I was pregnant with Vanya, I had some kind of genre crisis and a professional crisis, I became sick of doing side activities that bring money, but do not bring moral satisfaction to me and no benefit to society. I need to have a mission and know what I'm fighting for. That this business was necessary not only to me. At first I wanted to just make a blog, but I was lucky to meet my longtime friend and colleague Petro Sheksheev, who created his own PR agency and took me under his wing. He said: “Listen, what blog? You will have TUTTA.TV.” And before I could look back, I already had my own small channel on Youtube.
We understand that we are standing at the origins of some completely new business, trend, a new direction in the media and journalism. We receive a tremendous response from all sides: from the parent community, the expert community - doctors, teachers, psychiatrists, therapists - everyone is with us.
We have major partners among manufacturers of children's goods and services, we are friends with Huggies, Johnson & Johnson - all this suggests that we are in the right place at the right time and are doing something important and useful. It helps us to earn some money and develop professionally. We came up with a tricky format - subjective television, where we can talk about what excites us in this moment. It so happened that we started with the topic of pregnancy, childbirth and the first year of a baby's life, but now we already have several formats, and we are working on another one - about relationships between adults. During the week, every day we have new program. Now there are 4 releases, and there will be 5 unique programs. Of course, we cannot say that we are a full-fledged channel with a round-the-clock broadcasting network, we have not grown up to this, it is very expensive and unnecessary. On the contrary, our advantage is that a person can turn on the transfer at any time. We exist not in time, but in space. And our viewer responds very vividly, and the most interesting thing is that we have a very high percentage of the male audience - 35% of men, 25-45% of the age category. We even beat ourselves on the lips because of this, so as not to say “motherhood and childhood”, but to say “parenthood and childhood”. Because dads are really involved.
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- Which of the commercials caused a boom?
- Our most watchable program, which has more than 700 thousand views, is the program "Visiting Tutta" with psychologist Larisa Surkova. She is a very popular psychologist on Instagram and has a very loyal following. Oddly enough, the program about childbirth with anesthesia caused a great resonance. We had such a holivar about this, almost like about vaccinations. I did not expect that women who chose anesthesia would be so fiercely defending their right to pain relief.
- It seems to me that in our society ambitions are a colossal engine of everything, including holivars. Everyone strives to be perfect, no one leaves himself the right to make mistakes. “If I did anesthesia, I was a priori right.”
One side. On the other hand, this is terrible infantilism and selfishness, when “I” is in the center, it hurts me, I was anesthetized, and I don’t care about your baby, he is not there yet. He will come out of me, then he will be. What can he feel there? We at TUTTA.TV always try to give two answers to any question. For example, snot in a child - one expert says: "It is necessary to stop the snot from a child, the child does not sleep well and sucks, he will lose weight, he may develop sinusitis, etc." And the second one says: “leave yourselves behind the child, snot is a normal mucosal reaction, an immature immune system, dry air, teeth are being cut, you never know the reasons. If the child sleeps well, eats well, he does not have a temperature - do not climb into his nose once again. And both of these people are doctors, with practice. Perhaps both are PhDs, recognized experts in their field, and the parent must choose which point of view suits him best. It's good that she's not alone. Because parenthood is a responsibility. And you must take it upon yourself every minute, without shifting to grandparents, educators, nannies or doctors.
Interview: Ksenia Wagner
